She is 14 years old and has started year 10, this has been a problem since she started at secondary school.
Every morning my parents walk in telling her to wake up and she says she will but she doesn't until the time is after school and then my parents start getting annoyed. Today (I'm 18 and share a room with my sister) I woke up at 9am to my mum telling my sister she has to go in otherwise she can't see her friends after school anymore.
And of course like my sister shouts.
Before the year started, my parents were also hassling her and telling her she better not act up before going to school which I though was just going to make her NOT go into school because she is gonna get hassled.
Anyway we have all tried asking her if she is okay but she mostly just doesn't reply as we recognise something is probably going on.
She has said small bits like she doesn't like the classes or the teachers but in my eyes if there is nothing serious going on it doesn't warrant such a reaction. She has also told me about certain social situations with friends but doesn't listen when I try to give advice.
She also hasn't been diagnosed but we all suspect she has ADHD as it is hereditary (suspected it for a while but my parents won't get an official diagnosis because we "already know she has ADHD") so that might also play a part.
My parents tried to solve the situation last year by taking her out of school to do homeschooling for around 6 months, but there was no schedule/structure and she learnt nothing. All she did was play roblox all day and only went out with friends maybe 3 times.
I thought it was stupid so I talked to my parents about it because its not helping her and I suggested she go back to school (but a different one) and it took a few weeks to get my point in.
When they talked to her about it they looked at other options, BETTER schools near us but were too far (by that I mean 10 mins by bus) and my sister didn't want to travel on a bus. For me personally I would have said tough luck it's a better school and will be more attentive to your needs but my parents were like okay go back to the school which caused the problems in the first place.
I discussed with my sister earlier this month and she was talking about it and she was saying how she was struggling with the content (because she missed out on a LOT) and how she doesn't like going back and I said I did suggest going to another school and she was like yeah and seemed to regret not listening.
What am I meant to do here to help her out so she goes into school or make life surrounding it easier for her?
It's really starting to wear down my mental health losing sleeping because I'm being woken up to shouting almost every morning she has school (one time it was 5am).
Don't say its not my business to get involved, she's my younger sister, It affects me too and frankly I don't believe my parents are doing a good job.
If you don't think it's my business don't even reply.