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I’m in my 20s and have seen allot of posts about looking for friends. If anyone is looking for friends or interested in making friends do reply. As I am in the same boat and am willing to try everything. Until then have a nice day 😊
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ok
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wdym willing to try for everything? lol
Original post by KawaiiSunshine
I’m in my 20s and have seen allot of posts about looking for friends. If anyone is looking for friends or interested in making friends do reply. As I am in the same boat and am willing to try everything. Until then have a nice day 😊
Original post by arian134
wdym willing to try for everything? lol


As in willing to take the risk and make friends with strangers online haha lol
didn’t realize how weird that sentence may seem until now 🤣
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Original post by KawaiiSunshine
As in willing to take the risk and make friends with strangers online haha lol
didn’t realize how weird that sentence may seem until now 🤣

LOL all good in that case i can be your friend
Any online relationship is likely to be para-social, that's been my experience anyway. You can never build a real bond with people because there will always be distance.
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Yeah I get that, I think it’s only bad to have online friends when they are your only friends
Original post by quagmiretoilet
Any online relationship is likely to be para-social, that's been my experience anyway. You can never build a real bond with people because there will always be distance.
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Original post by KawaiiSunshine
I’m in my 20s and have seen allot of posts about looking for friends. If anyone is looking for friends or interested in making friends do reply. As I am in the same boat and am willing to try everything. Until then have a nice day 😊

Hey there! I would be interested in that. My insta is @chinese1711 (same username as on here). I can’t PM on here currently, as I haven’t had my account for 3 days at the time of writing this.
Original post by quagmiretoilet
Any online relationship is likely to be para-social, that's been my experience anyway. You can never build a real bond with people because there will always be distance.

That is definitely true but this is the best option I have so far. Until I can make in person friends.
Original post by arian134
Yeah I get that, I think it’s only bad to have online friends when they are your only friends


I think you put too much stock in relationships in general, people move on and this bs about needing friends or ultimately wanting to rely on them is wishful imo
Original post by arian134
LOL all good in that case i can be your friend


Do tell me more about yourself your age etc
Original post by KawaiiSunshine
That is definitely true but this is the best option I have so far. Until I can make in person friends.

I can relate to this. I’ve been homeschooled my whole life, and so this is currently my only option as well when it comes to socialisation.
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Original post by chinese1711
I can relate to this. I’ve been homeschooled my whole life, and so this is currently my only option as well when it comes to socialisation.

How is it working out for you and how are you making friends online
Original post by chinese1711
Hey there! I would be interested in that. My insta is @chinese1711 (same username as on here). I can’t PM on here currently, as I haven’t had my account for 3 days at the time of writing this.

Do you have discord by any chance other people from this site where looking to make friends to so I made a discord. So far it’s just the two of us so do drop your discord.
Original post by KawaiiSunshine

Do you have discord by any chance other people from this site where looking to make friends to so I made a discord. So far it’s just the two of us so do drop your discord.


I might join it, could you send me a PM?
Original post by KawaiiSunshine
Do you have discord by any chance other people from this site where looking to make friends to so I made a discord. So far it’s just the two of us so do drop your discord.


Be careful who you connect with over the internet, you have no clue who you may be bringing into your social circle. Also, Discord is a cesspool of creeps and degenerates. So there's that too.
Original post by quagmiretoilet
Be careful who you connect with over the internet, you have no clue who you may be bringing into your social circle. Also, Discord is a cesspool of creeps and degenerates. So there's that too.

yes I will be careful and I’m aware but discord is the safest way for me as none of my information or anything like that is on there. But I will definitely keep this in mind.
Original post by KawaiiSunshine
How is it working out for you and how are you making friends online

It’s alright, it’s a decent substitute for real life interaction, but at the same time, I don’t have too many friends. But I would say a big part of that is because my personality comes across as somewhat odd and eccentric.

I have found that friendships tend to find their way to you when you’re least expecting it though.

How has your experience meeting people in the online world been? Are you new to it, and if not, have you had much success?
Original post by KawaiiSunshine
Do you have discord by any chance other people from this site where looking to make friends to so I made a discord. So far it’s just the two of us so do drop your discord.

I do have a discord account, but my phone storage is full, and I don’t currently have the app downloaded. I could probably reinstall it sometime soon though, once I free up some space.

My account will also turn 3 days old tomorrow, so from then, I believe you will be able to send me private messages on here, if you’d like.
Original post by chinese1711
I do have a discord account, but my phone storage is full, and I don’t currently have the app downloaded. I could probably reinstall it sometime soon though, once I free up some space.

My account will also turn 3 days old tomorrow, so from then, I believe you will be able to send me private messages on here, if you’d like.

If you log into Discord using the browser version you should be able to save your details in a separate tab and log into it whenever you want.

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