Recently, I feel like my friend is getting too angry about me and my best friend being close. We are all in the same friend group, but she isn’t really close with me. She used to be best friends with the person who is now my best friend, and I can’t help but feel like she is just trying to create problems between us. She’s been a bit weird when I talk to my best friend, like roll her eyes and being rude. And also she was acting so childish by giving her one of those childish bff bracelets even though she knows that the other girl is my best friend. I don’t mean to sound possessive but she’s always clinging around us when we just want to talk to each other she’s always there listening. Also, me and my best friend made plans to go somewhere this weekend, and she just invited herself to come with us. It’s starting to get a little on my nerves and I just wanted to know if I was in the wrong for feeling annoyed at her.
I do get where she’s coming from, as in they aren’t best friends anymore but I feel like she should just leave us alone sometimes because she’s always there, and then she wants to be in all of our conversations on top of that.
I want to talk to my best friend about it, that she isn’t leaving us alone and stuff, i know she’s feeling the same way as well because we’ve mentioned it and stuff but I also feel like I shouldn’t because the whole reason they stopped being best friends is because of her being too possessive and controlling what she does and who she talks to. I feel as though I’ll come across as controlling but I feel like I shouldn’t have to deal with my friend always coming into our conversations when sometimes I don’t really want her there.
Please reply. Thank you xx