Good post.
If you'd've explained your viewpoint that civilly to start with, rather than negging me for 'kissing ass,' then I would have been a bit happier.
And as for the 'little boy' comments - I was talking not about you, but the boyfriend in the OP. I repeat, not you. From what I could gather from the OP, the bf was 18 yo and hence still has a little growing to do yet. Still don't recall using that phrase, but yes, I did mention he had some growing to do. Him, not you.
Thankyou for expressing your view point. By negative and positive I meant that I view your standing as negative in that you're inclined to think little of others until they prove themselves worth more. That's fine and is your prerogative. Whereas my viewpoint is that I view people as worthy of at least a little of my respect straight away.
I do not believe that my attitude is that I have little self-worth compared to others; in fact I think very highly of myself. But I'm just humble enough to abide by others' rules temporarily to make life a little easier for me.
So while it may look a little too altruistic and self-flagellating for your liking, at the end of the day I'm still being a little self-serving by trying to make things easier for myself, hehe.
Again, I have no problem with you - we're both above petty internet arguing.
And your opinions and viewpoints are equally valid as mine.
All the best.
Gaz