What would make your parents dissapointed?

No matter how controlling or laissez faire your parents are, there will undoubtedly be something that you do that will make them thing of you in negative terms - whether it's simple annoyance or being disowned completely - what actions, behaviours, or beliefs will make your parents dissapointed?

For me, although my parents aren't at all controlling and don't interfere in my life in nearly every part. Yet I know they would definitely be dissapointed in me if I did/and they they found it I did illicit drugs; if I was homosexual and came out to them they would be pretty upset; they'd also not be too happy if I got some girl pregnant.

The only thing I know they'd be very pissed off to the point of perhaps disowning me would be if I got a tattoo, sounds silly but, my parents have very strong feelings against tattoos - for various cultural, religious etc. reasons that I won't go into.

They'd also be pretty pissed of if I had children and decided to raise them out irreligious (as in not Jewish), they wouldn't mind if I went out with or married someone who's not Jewish but, unfortunately for them they're going to be a bit miffed when I raise my children secular - they see it as "letting Hitler win".

What about yourselves then?

do you cut yourself?

don't know why people put up with children like you
your parents must be so proud.. if they don't give a **** at least discipline yourself

Loool which of these???p

If i leave uni
If i ever get pregnant
if i get together with a poor chav
if i had any tatoo
if i commit a crime
If i ever try drugs

Actually, I take that back, I could help you accomplish ALL of these




You get with me (i'm actually what you might consider a chav: I have a lower class accent, my rents live in a council house, my sister has a son - who I love to pieces - out of wedlock, and I have atleast 2 relatives behind bars. Not one word of a lie.), we have a little chav baby together (boy of course), we get a tattoo of our love (or you do at least - I hate needles), i'll teach you how to steal whole shopping trolleys full of shopping and I have plenty pals frim school who I can get some charlie off of for you to snort.

Let the corruption begin.

Tbf, I think you'll be the one corrupting me, look at your neg rep! Wtf have you been up to girl?!

errrrrrrrr, im actually really bad girl!!!Even worse than your pals from school

Now-a-days my mere existence disappoints them...

In a word; lolzers.

Since when did I ever say that my parents "don't care"?
I've taken full responsibility for every short-coming that I've ever had in my life, it's something you do when you grow up (talking of growing up, I'm assuming it's something you've never done seeing as you have to act like a tough guy via the Internet, presumably to make you feel better about yourself by attempting to [and in doing so, failing] belittle others).

I smoke reefer because there are no ****ing reasons whatsoever that it should be illegal, and if there are reasons why it should be, then those same reasons apply to alcohol and smoking (similar reasons, not always the same). I explained and gave a very thorough argument concerning those issues towards my mum, who both understands why I prefer doing it to alcohol, and prefers my doing it as opposed to alcohol.
When my parents found out that I was doing it a few years back during college then they went ape-**** at me (and for smoking; they found out at the same time), I don't **** about when it comes down to honesty). I told them I'd stop smoking weed, and six months later, I did.

My dad smokes. That's not the reason I smoke, but it makes it a hell of a lot harder for them to be pissed at me concerning that.

As for drinking; everyone who drinks has had funny moments similar to the ones I imparted. I don't drink any more because alcohol stopped agreeing with me, and I started getting aggressive when drunk. Hey, does that look like RESPONSIBILITY to you? Sure does to me.

Concerning college; I have no problem admitting I ****ed up my first year due to drug use (although it wasn't heavy use, I sure as hell preferred smoking weed to being in a classroom. Having said that, there isn't a single black mark on my attendance record, so I must've been doing something right. Oh, look, our old friend RESPONSIBILITY has popped up again. Say hi to him, don't be rude).
I ****ed up my second year of college because I was enjoying ragging my then-girlfriend too much to care about revising.
All of that said, I only went to college to enjoy learning about subjects I enjoyed learning about, I never went for the academia, I went because I enjoyed it.

So I don't know what tree you're barking up, but I fully accept what has happened in my life, and place it all at my own feet. But do you know what? I'm happy with the way I am and the way my life turned out. Maybe in a few years I'll turn around and think "I wonder what going to Uni is like?", but until then, I simply couldn't give a toss because I'm one happy mofo.

And yes, my parents are very proud of me. So here, I made this "**** you" especially for you. Make sure you water it twice a day.