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Really like her, but she has a boyfriend

I've known her for about 7 months now. I say 'known', she's been in my class for that time, we haven't spoken to each other. I don't know her boyfriend, but I think they are quite serious.

What the hell do I do? Tell her? I don't want her to think that some quiet guy who she doesn't know is a creep. I also don't want to put her in an uncomfortable position, what with her having a boyfriend. I also don't want to make things awkward for the remainder of the year.

Girls, if you were in her position, how would you react?

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Reply 1

Kitty Pryde

You've never spoken to her before? She's not gonna leave her boyfriend for you.

Let it go.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by goddogit

you really should pay attention to naming your thread a bit more wisely to actually get people to read it next time.

What?

Reply 3

didgeridoo12uk

its been 7 months and you still haven't spoken to her... you have no chance, go find somebody else

Reply 4

Arcanine

Don't be faggot and go after a girl if she's taken.

Reply 5

ahoward

You could always do what a TSRian 'apparantly' did yesterday...tell her he died? :facepalm:

Reply 6

Chwirkytheappleboy

Original post by Kitty Pryde

You've never spoken to her before? She's not gonna leave her boyfriend for you.

Let it go.

seconded

Reply 7

Nick Longjohnson

The question is, how single is she on a scale of 1-10?

Reply 8

AldrousHuxley

start talking to her.

Reply 9

MrVinny

Its easy if you know how, but with you not chatting to her and making her feel comfortable in your presence your on the back foot from the start, why not just be friends with her and chat to her alot, show her the man you can be and you never know.

Rule No 2 of the players guide.

2.3-A - Tell them what they want to hear.

And most importantly Rule No 1

1. Know your opponent.

Putting them together should get you started.

Good luck, If you need more advice get to the doctors.

Reply 10

Kabloomybuzz

Do nothing, get over it, you will, switch your attentions to someone more available.

You haven't even got a friendship with this person and even if you did, shes unavailable and therefore off limits, why tell her and make it awkward for both of you?

Reply 11

The Polar Dude

im in the same position as you but ive known this girl properly for 8 months and we've talked a lot, currently having a pokin war on fb.
you have to get to know her properly and then perhaps tell her, but its best not to as it would make things awkward

Reply 12

Grumpig

I don't think your biggest worry is that she has a boyfriend. I think the biggest problem is that you've never spoken to her.

Reply 13

Athena21

Original post by The Polar Dude

You sound like a great guy and all, but I don't think a "poking war on facebook" is gonna get you the girl....

Maybe just ask her out already? :wink: