How can a virgin be good in bed? But this has come from the horse's mouth!

My friend was a virgin up until Saturday night, so the next day (yesterday) we went and played footy over the park, and we kept quizzing him on what it was like, but he was just saying "Yeah it was alright" and wouldn't give anything away. Anyway, a friend (who is a friend of mine) who of the girl he slept with told me that she said he was "pretty good" in bed considering he didn't have much experience. How the hell is that possible? Also, he is a virgin because he always hangs out with us (the same group of friends) guys, so we'd know if he'd slept with anyone else. I'm just really surprised that he could be fairly good in bed with no experience. Anyone?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Second time I had sex I made my gf cum..... Its not impossible to be ok at sex at first.

Though the first time was a complete disaster.....

Reply 2

trojan10_om

9

Ha-ha, your friend had sex with a horse! Is that a yes, or a nheeeeeey?

Reply 3

Zoombini

4

some people can just be naturally good, like even if you've slept with loads of people you can still be bad in bed. Experience and how good you are in bed dont neccessarily correlate

Reply 4

xnatalie01x

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Original post by trojan10_om

Ha-ha, your friend had sex with a horse! Is that a yes, or a nheeeeeey?

This made me laugh, I wish I had rep!

:rofl:

Reply 5

Vitamin Sea

1

Leave those horses alone you monster!

Wut?

Reply 6

*Lollo*

8

Experience is a small part of make factors that make up how good a person is in bed. The others being passion (the greatest part), chemistry and just pure technique (some are better at sex naturally). Guys can have been shagging around their whole life but still have sex as if they masturbate with a woman instead of their hand. Although it's rarely great for a girl to sleep with a virgin, because he is probably not so savvy about the clitoris and all. But someone who's slept with 50 is not necessarily better than someone who's slept with 10.

Reply 7

The Egg Militia

8

My first time I did okay :sexface:

but the last time I had it, I wasn't particularly impressive. Probably because the girl I had last was experienced and knew what she was doing well ;D

Anyway, I don't think experience has that much of an impact on how long a guy lasts. Also, if you get your head in the 'right' books, you're gonna know what to do first time.

Reply 8

INeedToLoseWeight

First time I gave a BJ he said i was fantastic. Clearly it's not all down to experience.

Reply 9

Jakelee

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Original post by INeedToLoseWeight

First time I gave a BJ he said i was fantastic. Clearly it's not all down to experience.

So you believed him when he said those were tears of joy? :cool:

Reply 10

Nepene

10

Despite rumours to the contrary, sex is relatively simple. So long as you know about foreplay and clitoral stimulation you can make it up as you go along. With porn, more people know that a woman's more than just a gaping hole.

Reply 11

Victor-PP

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Original post by INeedToLoseWeight

First time I gave a BJ he said i was fantastic. Clearly it's not all down to experience.

He doesn't necessarily mean it. Guys say stuff like that to encourage girls and get more blowjobs, even if they aren't fantastic. :tongue:

(edited 12 years ago)

Reply 12

Carpediemxx

17

Sex is the most instinctive thing in the world....i think people over think things way too much. If you are someone who is very aware of other people and the way they react to certain things, it is not terribly difficult to be amazing at sex, its all about being receptive to the person you are with.
People are generally bad in bed because they don't listen, or are lazy

Reply 13

JME10

1

Yh its possible. I told the girl I slept with before I lost mine that I was a virgin. Afterwards she kept saying I couldn't be and thought I was lying because 'I was good and knew what I was doing' (her words basically).

Reply 14

username607202

17

Some people are just naturally talented. :smile:

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

Define 'good in bed'? I dont get what people refer to specifically?

Reply 16

Cicerao

14

Pretty sure that was a qualified "pretty good for a virgin".

Reply 17

Saifullah

Original post by JamesM

My friend was a virgin up until Saturday night, so the next day (yesterday) we went and played footy over the park, and we kept quizzing him on what it was like, but he was just saying "Yeah it was alright" and wouldn't give anything away. Anyway, a friend (who is a friend of mine) who of the girl he slept with told me that she said he was "pretty good" in bed considering he didn't have much experience. How the hell is that possible? Also, he is a virgin because he always hangs out with us (the same group of friends) guys, so we'd know if he'd slept with anyone else. I'm just really surprised that he could be fairly good in bed with no experience. Anyone?

you know, in the olden days, maybe they didn't have any prior experience before they got married, but they sure as hell were able to have kids, nowadays everyone speaks of having experience but they just fail to deliver any results.

Reply 18

SugarPuffs

5

Maybe he's been watching a lot of porn, and I mean A LOT lol. But yeah he must have a good idea of what he wanted to do with you and he did it without any problems.