I'd like a girlfriend. Never had one. I'm 19.

Well you said yourself that people have told you that your good looking, which is always a positive. And I wouldn't change your personality at all, you sound really nice. I also laugh a lot.
You dont mention whether there is anyone that has caught your eye

There is. From looks she seemed nice, but after I heard her talking to someone, she seemed a bit bossy and rude. Maybe not!

No one in particular at the moment

Well just keep you eye out, there is no point it being in a relationship with someone you are not 100% sure about. Thats why I've never had a boyfriend, I'm 19 also. You just have to stay positive and be confident. I'm always drawn to confidence in a man, even if they are average in terms of looks

I'd say i'm confident... just not with dating. Aha

I know people always say this but you have to fake it till you make it. I never used to be confident around boys but this year things changed. I got my first job so it forced me to talk to people that I didnt know and now I feel fine talking to new people and casual flirting. Its actually fun

That's what got my more confident! Talking to people in my first job which I got last year

I think I get worried about rejection. When I shouldn't!

That's what got my more confident! Talking to people in my first job which I got last year

I think I get worried about rejection. When I shouldn't!

Hi! I'm 19.

Never in my life have I had a girlfriend. I like... love all of my mates, they're the funnest, caring, kindest people, but my best friend often brings his girlfriend along at Uni if we're working or wandering about. I don't mind it at all, but all i'll say, he isn't shy of kissing her loads in public haha.

I've never had a girlfriend. I look around and see couples, him doing that, and I just feel a bit low.

I've been told i'm good looking? but no-one seems interested, and I just feel too shy. I'd love to have someone where i'd run to get an hourly bus home to see someone like he does.

I'm 19 and although i think it's because i'm a bit shy around girls for some reason, I act a bit, well not childish, but silly? at times. I make people laugh but I think some times I just laugh about everything. There was an older couple on that 24 Hours in A&E programme. They said they laugh about everything. The man in it had to have a prosthetic leg. They were both laughing about it and saying "we named it... Stumpy". I'd love to be like that!

Also I look a bit younger than my age. I'm only 5'8" too which doesn't help, and Christmas 2010, I couldn't even buy happy gilmore on DVD in HMV

But I just feel a bit lonely really. My friends are great but i'd just like someone too. They've all got pictures on their phones background of them all smiling and happy together.

I can be serious but I just do laugh a lot.

It's a numbers game, pal

Ive been in same position as this guy, same height, girls have complimented on me being good looking all that bs decent dress sense etc and yet nothing. I went out one night looking like crap, met this amazing girl and haven't looked back and that was not until I was 21. so dont worry, only worry if you start getting older than 21 lol.

I know how you feel, you see all these couples etc, I no the pain most guys do. Girls should think themselves lucky, they can stay focused do there work like good girls as they dont have high levels of testosterone to deal with, us guys are constantly fighting against nature. fight the power! sorry public enemy was in my head.