Why didn't this girl let me hug her? Please help
background info
For the last two weeks we have been flirting consistently. We have been talking about everything.
A couple of my friends have seen that how flirty she has been and have told me to ask her out.
She has taken on some of my interest such as borrowing my game of thrones books.
today's events
We were flirting, we sat next to each other in the lecture. I caught her looking at me many times an smiled
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
For the last two weeks we have been flirting consistently. We have been talking about everything.
A couple of my friends have seen that how flirty she has been and have told me to ask her out.
She has taken on some of my interest such as borrowing my game of thrones books.
today's events
We were flirting, we sat next to each other in the lecture. I caught her looking at me many times an smiled
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
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Maybe she just didn't feel herself today, don't beat yourself up over it <3 also what do you mean by flirting? Because I get told I flirt a lot and I don't see it so maybe it's the same with her but good luck...
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Original post by Lucyisglaswegian
Maybe she just didn't feel herself today, don't beat yourself up over it <3 also what do you mean by flirting? Because I get told I flirt a lot and I don't see it so maybe it's the same with her but good luck...
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basically means showing that you are interested in another persom
Original post by Safiya122
yeah she was probably just like in one of those moods
she did seem less cheerful that usual, but she was still smiling a lot
Yeah I know that but I mean what sort actions are you doing?
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Original post by Lucyisglaswegian
giving her lots if complements, eye contact. trying to flatter her.
concentrate on your lectures!
Original post by Paras Agarwal
concentrate on your lectures!
true, but don't want to be an old man full of regret.
Original post by Lucyisglaswegian
what would you suggest I try to do?
Original post by freedom
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
It's really interesting how you've made this about you. She's given every indication that she's in a crap mood and you make this about how you were turned down for a hug, despite there being no connection between you and her mood.
No, never talk to her again, the two are completely related and there is no chance of anything.
Original post by Paras Agarwal
concentrate on your lectures!
Agreed! OP, focus on academic succession than flirting with that girl, lectures are far greater.
And, she may have been on her monthly cycle or experienced a certain trauma?
Original post by sliceofcake
It's really interesting how you've made this about you. She's given every indication that she's in a crap mood and you make this about how you were turned down for a hug, despite there being no connection between you and her mood.
No, never talk to her again, the two are completely related and there is no chance of anything.
No, never talk to her again, the two are completely related and there is no chance of anything.
I just wanted to give a friendly hug, because hugs help cheer people up.
She was if an off mood, buy she was still talking lots and laughing loads at my humour, so it thought it was okay.
Must be that time of the month.
Original post by inachigeek21
Agreed! OP, focus on academic succession than flirting with that girl, lectures are far greater.
And, she may have been on her monthly cycle or experienced a certain trauma?
And, she may have been on her monthly cycle or experienced a certain trauma?
true lectures are very important. I was taking lots if notes.
I just don't want to be lonely.
Original post by freedom
background info
For the last two weeks we have been flirting consistently. We have been talking about everything.
A couple of my friends have seen that how flirty she has been and have told me to ask her out.
She has taken on some of my interest such as borrowing my game of thrones books.
today's events
We were flirting, we sat next to each other in the lecture. I caught her looking at me many times an smiled
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
For the last two weeks we have been flirting consistently. We have been talking about everything.
A couple of my friends have seen that how flirty she has been and have told me to ask her out.
She has taken on some of my interest such as borrowing my game of thrones books.
today's events
We were flirting, we sat next to each other in the lecture. I caught her looking at me many times an smiled
She look different today and seemed less cheerful. She didn't take notes in the lecture, and she is usually making lots.
I asked her if she is okay, then offered a hug. She said no thanks.
What did I do wrong, I hug a lot of my friends.
I was about to ask her out today.
Should I countinue to talk to her? What can I do?
Why did she refuse, it was purely friendly hug?
Thank you for reading
Jesus H Mother****ing Christ, are people not allowed to have bad days any more?
She was presumably in a bad mood, end of story.
If you really think that you should stop talking to somebody because they were in a bad mood one day then bloody hell is the rest of your life going to be lonely.
Original post by tengentoppa
Must be that time of the month.
Do you reckon.
Her hair was a bit of a mess today if I am being honest.
Original post by freedom
she did seem less cheerful that usual, but she was still smiling a lot
idk maybe she likes you but she's heard something bad about you?
Original post by mackemforever
Jesus H Mother****ing Christ, are people not allowed to have bad days any more?
She was presumably in a bad mood, end of story.
If you really think that you should stop talking to somebody because they were in a bad mood one day then bloody hell is the rest of your life going to be lonely.
She was presumably in a bad mood, end of story.
If you really think that you should stop talking to somebody because they were in a bad mood one day then bloody hell is the rest of your life going to be lonely.
yes true, but she was still talking loads, and laughing at every joke I made.
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