She was SO not worth it...

I can't pretend I don't care, that's not how I've been brought up. I promised you I'd always be here to guide you and be a figure in your life. Your a good girl at heart, and I really do miss you. With that said, I think we should meet up and talk alone. Somewhere where your obviously going to feel safe and when your free?

Time is the only cure for pain.

I know sounds crap but that's the only way to move on.

The way I see it mate is you went out of your way to help her and she didn't reciprocate by giving any value back.

People like that in general you don't need in your life.

What you need to realise now mate is the ball is in your court. I'm guessing you have mutual friends. People like to gossip. Trust me on that one.

So make a name for yourself. Be social. Be out there. It will soon get back to that lass.

You will be improving your life this will get back to her. It conveys that despite the fact she hurt you. You have moved on. She knows shes hurt you because of that message and trust me. It will drive her nuts.

This will likely bring her coming back to you. At this point because you have improved yourself as a person you can politely tell her to sling her hook and you'll feel good about doing it. Been there. Done that.

I'm in a very similar situation, but as someone commented earlier, time will heal the wounds. I am still trying my best to get over my ex boyfriend and it's been really painful. However, in your case, I think she will realize what she lost sooner or later and she'll probably come back to you; that might also not necessarily happen though and you have to grow stronger and find someone who loves you back just as much as you do. Take care.

You're were chasing the girl. Never do that ever, let them chase you. You put way too much effort in when you were meant to be building an air of mysteriousness and throwing in a few no's.

She realised you're weak and took advantage. I don't even blame her.

You cannot get her out of you're mind otherwise you have an amazing power to delete memories which I don't know anyone yields. Replace her with someone else, and stop thinking about her negatively. Negative memories are held onto with more than positive ones.

Will memories fade for her? At the same rate they fade for you if not a bit slower. Obviously depending on factors like if you had sex, if you were her first etc.

At the end of the day we all try to differentiate ourselves and say we're unique but all our feelings and emotions are the same. Millions have felt/ are currently feeling the same way as you, take comfort in that.

Why did her flat mates want you out of thier house?

Yeah same here

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In my opinion,I think you should try replacing her in your heart...that always works

its simply,just be available to the others...be open to other females,BTW I've gone through something like this before and the dude told me he was sorry after a month

So you've told us now it's over

That the high wasn't worth the pain

She had a long list of ex-lovers

They'd tell you she's insane

But she had a blank space baby

But now she's crossed out your name