Is it wrong to sleep with a escort while in a relationship for a bucket list
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Original post by Tivipan
Yeah but you are never going to have that opportunity to rob a bank, well you probs could go through your girlfriends sister. But that's besides the point.
It doesn't matter. Its wrong. yes.
Please don't do it.
Original post by Tivipan
Think telling her we were on a break will work?
Learn from Friends....
"We were on a break" is a technicality and you will not get out of cheating.
It's a break, not a break up.
Original post by Tivipan
Yeah but if he asked you and said it's one of his bucket list (things to do before you die) Would that not make it AS bad, I know cheating is bad. But it's like smoking weed, everyone has tried it and them people who haven't want to at the back of their minds
I'd break up with him if he was still intent on doing it.
Original post by Illegal Algebra
It's not worth it man, it's a waste of money. If you want an hour, it's gonna cost you well over a hundred quid if you want a quality escort. Waste of money, no pussy is worth that much money. It's not even that hot, paying a prostitute for sex? It's not hot, she's been f***ed by thousands of men before you. Easier just to find a loose woman somewhere or a bar slut and have sex with her, it'll only cost you a few drinks and a few hours of your time. I'm telling you man, don't waste your money.
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It's so hot man. Agency ones can rim you and do anything you ask them to. And yes, including the fact that she's been ****ed by others and has probs been gangbanged before. It's so seedy. And they look like wannabe models/typical uni girls too (because a lot of them are). So convenient too. I don't see why it is a bad way to spend one's money, I have had bloody good times and it is so easy. Have to admit, the sneaking behind everyones' back was pretty fun/seedy too.
Original post by Tom_Ford
It's so hot man. Agency ones can rim you and do anything you ask them to. And yes, including the fact that she's been ****ed by others and has probs been gangbanged before. It's so seedy. And they look like wannabe models/typical uni girls too (because a lot of them are). So convenient too. I don't see why it is a bad way to spend one's money, I have had bloody good times and it is so easy. Have to admit, the sneaking behind everyones' back was pretty fun/seedy too.
Yeah I know there are good escorts out there but they're so expensive! The one I went to was pretty boring, I was left very disappointed. If I was earning a very high salary then I'd definitely go for it, but I can't now. Haha the way you describe it, makes it sound great actually
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Original post by Tivipan
The aim is not to let her know, but not sure if I should just tell her I want too (get a slap) Or do it and live with the guilt... Do you see the rock and the hard place forming..
No; but I'm starting to feel a migraine forming.
It's cheating, even though it is without the emotional side of an affair.
Not worth it. If you want to sleep with someone else either ask your gf for a 3some or stop being a pussy and end the relationship.
Original post by Tivipan
Ever since I can remember I was 14 I have wanted to sleep with a escort But I'm now in a 3 year relationship. Do you think it would be wrong to do this?
Hi, I've been cheated on in the name of a 'bucket list' twice before (same guy, long-ish term relationship), and I can confirm that it completely ****ed with me and I'm still upset about it a year later.
Please do your girlfriend the decency of asking her if it's ok as a one-off, without pressuring her, and respecting her decision if she (understandably) says no.
Or even, do her the even bigger decency of breaking up with her and doing all your bucket list things and then finding someone else when you're genuinely ready for something serious. From the sounds of it you're not - if you love someone, you love them, and you want them and will never want to hurt them - and that's okay, but you need to be honest with her about this.
Original post by Tivipan
Think telling her we were on a break will work?
Sure, tell her you're on a break, shag someone else, then immediately resume the relationship.
A foolproof plan. I'm sure she won't suspect a thing.
I think all the amazing experiences in this world are crying their eyes out right now because of all of them, you've included having sex with a stranger who you pay to do it.
Explain the allure.
Also, this is not very different to doing it because you just want to - is this something so important in your life? If YES, then by all means do it; if it really is so important (how ludicrous btw) then your gf shouldn't be relevant. If, however, she is, then... Yeah, why even ask.
To you, and all other knobs asking similar questions regarding cheating, etc.: if you have such a desire to have anal sex, have sex with others, have sex with an escort, etc. WHY did you enter a "conventional" relationship with a "conventional" person that wouldn't accept such things?
Explain the allure.
Also, this is not very different to doing it because you just want to - is this something so important in your life? If YES, then by all means do it; if it really is so important (how ludicrous btw) then your gf shouldn't be relevant. If, however, she is, then... Yeah, why even ask.
To you, and all other knobs asking similar questions regarding cheating, etc.: if you have such a desire to have anal sex, have sex with others, have sex with an escort, etc. WHY did you enter a "conventional" relationship with a "conventional" person that wouldn't accept such things?
What a complete doorknob of a topic.
OP - if you want to do it, do it. But keep schtum when that cruel mistress they call Karma subsequently bites your rump big style one way or another.
I wish your girlfriend every happiness.
OP - if you want to do it, do it. But keep schtum when that cruel mistress they call Karma subsequently bites your rump big style one way or another.
I wish your girlfriend every happiness.
Original post by HYI52N
i would wait until you have broken up
Or better still grown up.
Original post by ETRC
Most the people on this thread don't see the point. It's not for sex, its the fact that it is very taboo which is why you would want to do it.
Except that it's not really that taboo( anymore) surely?
I doubt that the op is serious but if he is then I pity his poor girlfriend.Obviously it's wrong.Anyone with half a brain knows that.I think what the op is really asking,if he's serious at all,is whether paying for sex while in a relationship is worse than having a brief fling.And that I don't know.
Original post by Illegal Algebra
It's not worth it man, it's a waste of money. If you want an hour, it's gonna cost you well over a hundred quid if you want a quality escort. Waste of money, no pussy is worth that much money. It's not even that hot, paying a prostitute for sex? It's not hot, she's been f***ed by thousands of men before you. Easier just to find a loose woman somewhere or a bar slut and have sex with her, it'll only cost you a few drinks and a few hours of your time. I'm telling you man, don't waste your money.
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I must say you do seem to have had some pretty bad experiences paying for sex!
You should never pay more than £120 for a very good escort and if you treat her well and she likes you you can then see her again outside of the agency for much less as they often only get £50 an hour.
Also, OP: if the situation were reversed, how would you feel?
I've got plenty of 'ideal sexual encounters' I like to think about too, but I'd never even dream of putting that in front of the feelings of somebody I (really) love.
I've got plenty of 'ideal sexual encounters' I like to think about too, but I'd never even dream of putting that in front of the feelings of somebody I (really) love.
Original post by SophieSmall
Then he should leave his girlfriend, or ask permission without pressuring her.
Cheating is disgusting, if he cheats on her then he could be exposing himself and in turn her to possible STIs (and no not all STIs can be prevented with condoms, and many can be asymptomatic but still passable) without his girlfriend's consent. That is unforgivable in my book.
Cheating is disgusting, if he cheats on her then he could be exposing himself and in turn her to possible STIs (and no not all STIs can be prevented with condoms, and many can be asymptomatic but still passable) without his girlfriend's consent. That is unforgivable in my book.
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