I really like him but it annoys me that he always wears the same clothes!

Does this make me shallow?

I really like him, and he likes me too he's been flirting like mad, and is always is sure to be next to me within our group (I've tested this and he pretty much follows me around). I can see myself being with him as he's a lovely person, very thoughtful, articulate, intelligent, passionate and so much more He's tall, slim and not the most conventionally good looking guy but in my eyes he's gorgeous and I'm pretty thrilled by the prospect of being with him.

But it kind of bothers me that he always wears the same clothes everyday (basically I've only seen him in a combination of items of clothing: same blue jeans, same black jeans, same red t shirt, same navy blue t shirt and a hoodie) and I see him several times a week in our social group. I mean don't get me wrong he seems to have good hygiene so he must be doing his laundry. And his family is well off so his limited wardrobe is not due to finances.

I think it's time for me to reciprocate and move things onto the the next level. I definitely do want to date him but I don't want to end up nagging him in the future to change. I don't mind that he wears plain clothes or what he wears in general I just wish he changed them more often! I'm actually even more turned off by men who are high fashion/metrosexual/hipsters but I do appreciate the effort to switch it up a little. If the relationship were to blossom would it be okay to buy him some new t shirts or take him shopping? Or would that be impeding on his own freedom to wear whatever he likes?

Ultimately of course even if he did stick to his ways I would still continue to date him as it's not a deal breaker just a niggling thought.

Your thoughts are appreciated

Buy him clothes if you want but don't nag. If he doesn't care about fashion then he doesn't care about fashion. Simple as that.

Does this make me shallow?

I really like him, and he likes me too he's been flirting like mad, and is always is sure to be next to me within our group (I've tested this and he pretty much follows me around). I can see myself being with him as he's a lovely person, very thoughtful, articulate, intelligent, passionate and so much more He's tall, slim and not the most conventionally good looking guy but in my eyes he's gorgeous and I'm pretty thrilled by the prospect of being with him.

But it kind of bothers me that he always wears the same clothes everyday (basically I've only seen him in a combination of items of clothing: same blue jeans, same black jeans, same red t shirt, same navy blue t shirt and a hoodie) and I see him several times a week in our social group. I mean don't get me wrong he seems to have good hygiene so he must be doing his laundry. And his family is well off so his limited wardrobe is not due to finances.

I think it's time for me to reciprocate and move things onto the the next level. I definitely do want to date him but I don't want to end up nagging him in the future to change. I don't mind that he wears plain clothes or what he wears in general I just wish he changed them more often! I'm actually even more turned off by men who are high fashion/metrosexual/hipsters but I do appreciate the effort to switch it up a little. If the relationship were to blossom would it be okay to buy him some new t shirts or take him shopping? Or would that be impeding on his own freedom to wear whatever he likes?

Ultimately of course even if he did stick to his ways I would still continue to date him as it's not a deal breaker just a niggling thought.

Your thoughts are appreciated

This isn't about fashion if you read my post I'm actually turned off by men wearing fashion it seems kind of feminine to me. I just wish he swapped his t shirts more that's all I've known him for a year and literally only ever seen him wear one of 2 t shirts.

I understand where you are coming from. I don't even like wearing the same trousers / joggers / jeans in the same weak, let alone a t-shirt. And it annoys me when people only seem to have like 2 different clothing combos, which they switch back and forth from

It's not the biggest deal in the world, however, I think if you got together and immediately went shopping for his wardrobe, then he's most likely gonna take offence. Wondering whats wrong with the stuff he already wears. If you feel you had to change it up, you could possibly go shopping together, buy yourself stuff and suggest that something might look good on him, to increase what he has to wear.

But don't say "I think you need new / more clothes", it might kill him

Honestly this is a ridiculous thing to get worked up about. Not everyone cares if they have a separate outfit for each day of the week, not to mention it's not like everyone can afford to be buying new clothes all the time. Just because his parents are well off it doesn't mean HE is well off. I know plenty of people from well off family's whose parents don't give them money outside of what they NEED...and even then many of my friends are expected to work for everything.

The way you are looking at this is very selfish, it's all about you.

Chill out Soph, this isn't believeteam22

Does he smell? If he doesn't then get over yourself, really.

Why do I not seem chilled out?
I'm very calm.

Why do I not seem chilled out?
I'm very calm.

No my and OP said he doesn't did you even read it?

Honestly this is a ridiculous thing to get worked up about. Not everyone cares if they have a separate outfit for each day of the week, not to mention it's not like everyone can afford to be buying new clothes all the time. Just because his parents are well off it doesn't mean HE is well off. I know plenty of people from well off family's whose parents don't give them money outside of what they NEED...and even then many of my friends are expected to work for everything.

The way you are looking at this is very selfish, it's all about you.