Hello everyone. I'm on study abroad in Canada and there's this girl that I really like. We've only known eachother for about 2 weeks.
She kept asking me out with her friends to do stuff, which I originally thought was great. She seemed quite interested in me - for example when I said I wasn't going to come out one night she sent her friend round my room to bully me into going. Other instances include when we were at a restaurant and her and her friend swapped seats without any discussion so that she could sit in front of me and talk. Other instances include how she talks about sex in front of me etc.
However, yesterday when I was with her friends something came up. She's going on a date with another guy!! I spoke to her about it and she said he's a creep and that she's gonna spend the date "dodging bullets" (i.e. trying to avoid kissing him). Her friends then gave her advice on how to do that. I asked her then why she was going and she said because it'd be free food/cinema tickets. She said he asked and she's just gonna go, and that she wasn't pushing it.
Her friends all said that girls do this, and supposedly YikYak agrees? :s But anyway, I find it uncomfortable that she'd so blatently wasting a guy's time and gonna use him for his money. Should I avoid this girl? I like her and I think that she likes me, although I don't want to be used.
I was thinking of going clubbing with her and if she kisses me, then I may ask her on a date. Although only until I've got something from her would I ask her, since I don't want to be used.
What do you guys think? I honestly thought she was a nice, quiet girl. Although my perception of her has changed slightly. All advice welcome