Is it weird to be a 24 year old girl who has never been asked out??

sparklenshine

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What do you think of someone like this..especially if she was normal, nice, educated, and attractive?

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Chicken Bacon

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Original post by sparklenshine

What do you think of someone like this..especially if she was normal, nice, educated, and attractive?

I think it's kinda strange that you haven't been asked out, if the description you give is a representation of yourself.

Reply 2

samina_ay

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not strange - mr. right will come

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Maggie_O

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Original post by sparklenshine

What do you think of someone like this..especially if she was normal, nice, educated, and attractive?

I'd think...Idk. I'd think there is something wrong with the girls' social skills like confidence. Unless you keep to yourself 24/7 I'd get it. And even still I don't get it because when a man wants that, he wants that and will approach. I go to a busy city college and live off campus at home and don't even speak in lectures, much more speaking to people. I mean if they ask me something I'll speak...annoyed albeit. But I keep myself to myself. I don't want distractions with new friends and I don't want a man right now because no time/energy/money as college is sucking me dry. Yet I still get approached a lot for someone like that.

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Kevin De Bruyne

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Judging by this thread maybe not.

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Jazz90

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Original post by sparklenshine

What do you think of someone like this..especially if she was normal, nice, educated, and attractive?

Honestly, I'd describe myself the same (other than being a little shy), and I didn't get asked out until I was 19. I grew up convinced I was ugly and delusional in some way. But then I went to uni and got asked out all the time to the point it was annoying.

I honestly just think you're a victim of circumstance. Do you put yourself in situations where guys have the chance to ask you out?

Reply 6

TaintedLight

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Original post by sparklenshine

What do you think of someone like this..especially if she was normal, nice, educated, and attractive?

Cut the bs do you want to go out with me or not

Reply 7

sparklenshine

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Original post by SeanFM

Judging by this thread maybe not.

Why??? What do you mean??

Reply 8

Kevin De Bruyne

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Original post by sparklenshine

Why??? What do you mean??

There is someone who seems to be in your exact position on that thread.

Maybe you are doing something wrong or don't chase guys enough.

Reply 9

sparklenshine

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Original post by Maggie_O

I'd think...Idk. I'd think there is something wrong with the girls' social skills like confidence. Unless you keep to yourself 24/7 I'd get it. And even still I don't get it because when a man wants that, he wants that and will approach. I go to a busy city college and live off campus at home and don't even speak in lectures, much more speaking to people. I mean if they ask me something I'll speak...annoyed albeit. But I keep myself to myself. I don't want distractions with new friends and I don't want a man right now because no time/energy/money as college is sucking me dry. Yet I still get approached a lot for someone like that.

Wow..i dont know I thought since I hardly socialise that it was okay but if you still get asked out I guess its not? I can tell I've been flirted with a few times..but by guys I wasnt interested in so I didn't really flirt back and they stopped. I otherwise have never been asked out..I'm not sure what to think now though. I do have social anxiety but thats the same as not socialising..
hmm

Reply 10

sparklenshine

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Original post by SeanFM

There is someone who seems to be in your exact position on that thread.

Maybe you are doing something wrong or don't chase guys enough.

Haha thats my thread unfortunately lol

Reply 11

sparklenshine

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Original post by DiceTheSlice

Cut the bs do you want to go out with me or not

I dont know you sorry

Reply 12

sparklenshine

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Original post by Jazz90

Honestly, I'd describe myself the same (other than being a little shy), and I didn't get asked out until I was 19. I grew up convinced I was ugly and delusional in some way. But then I went to uni and got asked out all the time to the point it was annoying.

I honestly just think you're a victim of circumstance. Do you put yourself in situations where guys have the chance to ask you out?

Why did things suddenly change when you went to uni? Well I used to be really confident as a kid..then I dont know why or how but I started becoming really self conscious when I was 17 and it got worse every year..now I can't even talk to someone without fearing they think I'm weird or something ..but I socialise probably once every 6 months

Reply 13

sparklenshine

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Original post by iAre Teh Lejend

I think it's kinda strange that you haven't been asked out, if the description you give is a representation of yourself.

Yeah it is..so would you be turned off by someone like me?

Reply 14

Maggie_O

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Original post by sparklenshine

Wow..i dont know I thought since I hardly socialise that it was okay but if you still get asked out I guess its not? I can tell I've been flirted with a few times..but by guys I wasnt interested in so I didn't really flirt back and they stopped. I otherwise have never been asked out..I'm not sure what to think now though. I do have social anxiety but thats the same as not socialising..
hmm

Don't take it too hard. Since you worded it that way like flirting, not asking out. And social anxiety, ok. Well I get flirted with all the time and I too don't talk back but I've been asked out as well, not in the best ways though. Like lewd. And then some guys are hella nervous around me and they rock side to side fidgeting and I glance at them to see them and they look really scared :redface:

but I won't help him like break the ice. I'll just ignore him still, is it cruel? lol

Anyway I see what you're asking. Basically a shy socially reserved girl but she's attractive. You're asking the persistence of men to want to date that?? I wonder too. I'd go into my personal details about my life but eh. I relate to you, no worries. Well..maybe we should worry, Idk.