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Think I saw/found a porn video with my partner on it...serious thread..advice needed.

N.B: This thread is a serious one, and although I fully expect lots of immature comments, they will be disregarded due to the nature of the issue at hand. Also, this thread isn't intended to break any rules or request sex tips. It is purely to ask advice.

Okay so, last night I was browsing through porn on the internet, and I came across one which was entitled along the lines of "...hot wife gets c*****ie".

I clicked on it with anticipation, and as it loaded up- I see a woman on the larger side. She has a shirt on, but no underwear/trousers, and a man is penetrating her (from point of view angle), in what looks like unprotected sex in missionary until he ejaculates.

I notice that when she moans it sounds familiar, however there were more things, as below.

The things which leapt out me most are:

A) The womans body shape/build is the same as my partner. Big breasted, larger lady. With flush red skin in areas.

B) I notice the bed sheets are familiar- I recall my partner having a very similar one.

C) The girl in the picture was moaning, and it sounded very alike to how my partner moans during sex.

D) This is going to sound odd; but the girls Vagina looked like my partners. I know there will be many thousands of girls with potentially the same type of Vagina, same look, feel etc etc. But it really did look like hers- and I should know given I've had sex with her a lot.

E) She had a towel underneath her and it also looks like one she owns.

F) She was wearing a particular t-shirt (and colour) which I also recognise.


I've realised that many of these factors may see bewildering and far-fetched. But honestly, it gave me a weird feeling when I watched it and all of these factors gave me a sickly feeling. Of course, there is a possibility it isn't her, maybe a high one.

Unfortunately, I am not put to ease with my concerns, because the profile of the girl is shown POV, however the filming only goes as far as to show her upper body and her neck/under chin. So I didn't get to see her face. Therefore, I have no proof or respite.

I can't come out and tell her about it, because if I am wrong I can imagine her getting very angry and possibly dump me.

At the same time, I can't help but look over and over it. Its too eerie. The way the girl moans, her body-shape, her Vagina, and the bedsheets. :/

The date stamp noted it at 2013 so was before we got together. Still feel sick and a bit jealous about it.

Of course, the title was baffling, but I guess the uploader could put any title or change the upload date.

I just hope if it is her, she didn't do this while with me.

tl:dr:

Think I saw my partner in a sex video- but can't be too sure. Lots of familiar sights. Read above for more info.

What to do?

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It was before she was with you, so no foul play there.

More importantly, by your description, the only people would be able to tell that it was her in the video are those who have:

1) a sartorial knowledge of her wardrobe

2) an in-depth knowledge of her towel collection

3) personal experience with her lady box

You're covered. No point in over-thinking it!
Basically you watch it and start playing with yourself. When you are done put on some Adelle and contemplate how insignificant your achievements in life are. Then go and do something about it.
Reply 3
Original post by Sir Candour
It was before she was with you, so no foul play there.

More importantly, by your description, the only people would be able to tell that it was her in the video are those who have:

1) a sartorial knowledge of her wardrobe

2) an in-depth knowledge of her towel collection

3) personal experience with her lady box

You're covered. No point in over-thinking it!


So your saying its likely (by my own observation) that I've stumbled across a video of her? (seriously)
Have a look to see if there are any more videos with her in that might have more identifying features. :yy:
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
Basically you watch it and start playing with yourself. When you are done put on some Adelle and contemplate how insignificant your achievements in life are. Then go and do something about it.


Genuinely made me laugh with this response. However, as much as its' funny, it really isn't (equally).

I'm quite honestly blighted by worry that my partner has a sex tape on the internet for every man and his dog to see!

A bit debasing in my view.
Reply 6
Original post by littlenorthernlass
Have a look to see if there are any more videos with her in that might have more identifying features. :yy:


A rather good contribution :smile:

I shall try this. I did follow through to the uploader's profile and found a few videos, but I am unsure as to whether its just a random selection made for personal taste of the user- or it is actually 'my partner' so to speak.

I'll check a few others and see if a) they are one and the same person and b) if the person has any further identifying qualities for me to disqualify.
Original post by Sir Candour
It was before she was with you, so no foul play there.

More importantly, by your description, the only people would be able to tell that it was her in the video are those who have:

1) a sartorial knowledge of her wardrobe

2) an in-depth knowledge of her towel collection

3) personal experience with her lady box

You're covered. No point in over-thinking it!


Original post by Anonymous
N.B: This thread is a serious one, and although I fully expect lots of immature comments, they will be disregarded due to the nature of the issue at hand. Also, this thread isn't intended to break any rules or request sex tips. It is purely to ask advice.

Okay so, last night I was browsing through porn on the internet, and I came across one which was entitled along the lines of "...hot wife gets c*****ie".

I clicked on it with anticipation, and as it loaded up- I see a woman on the larger side. She has a shirt on, but no underwear/trousers, and a man is penetrating her (from point of view angle), in what looks like unprotected sex in missionary until he ejaculates.

I notice that when she moans it sounds familiar, however there were more things, as below.

The things which leapt out me most are:

A) The womans body shape/build is the same as my partner. Big breasted, larger lady. With flush red skin in areas.

B) I notice the bed sheets are familiar- I recall my partner having a very similar one.

C) The girl in the picture was moaning, and it sounded very alike to how my partner moans during sex.

D) This is going to sound odd; but the girls Vagina looked like my partners. I know there will be many thousands of girls with potentially the same type of Vagina, same look, feel etc etc. But it really did look like hers- and I should know given I've had sex with her a lot.

E) She had a towel underneath her and it also looks like one she owns.

F) She was wearing a particular t-shirt (and colour) which I also recognise.


I've realised that many of these factors may see bewildering and far-fetched. But honestly, it gave me a weird feeling when I watched it and all of these factors gave me a sickly feeling. Of course, there is a possibility it isn't her, maybe a high one.

Unfortunately, I am not put to ease with my concerns, because the profile of the girl is shown POV, however the filming only goes as far as to show her upper body and her neck/under chin. So I didn't get to see her face. Therefore, I have no proof or respite.

I can't come out and tell her about it, because if I am wrong I can imagine her getting very angry and possibly dump me.

At the same time, I can't help but look over and over it. Its too eerie. The way the girl moans, her body-shape, her Vagina, and the bedsheets. :/

The date stamp noted it at 2013 so was before we got together. Still feel sick and a bit jealous about it.

Of course, the title was baffling, but I guess the uploader could put any title or change the upload date.

I just hope if it is her, she didn't do this while with me.

tl:dr:

Think I saw my partner in a sex video- but can't be too sure. Lots of familiar sights. Read above for more info.

What to do?


1)If you're in a relationship then why were you watching porn?
2)If you really want to know then invite her over, play the video with her and see her reaction.
Is it amateur or professional stuff? If it's the latter search the company and look for more stuff.
Original post by Anonymous
A rather good contribution :smile:

I shall try this. I did follow through to the uploader's profile and found a few videos, but I am unsure as to whether its just a random selection made for personal taste of the user- or it is actually 'my partner' so to speak.

I'll check a few others and see if a) they are one and the same person and b) if the person has any further identifying qualities for me to disqualify.


:biggrin: The profile might not be your partner herself but it could be a former boyfriend or FWB of hers so chances are they made more than one video together.
Get investigating, Sherlock!:tongue:
Original post by Ahmed766
1)If you're in a relationship then why were you watching porn?


lol at this
Original post by Ahmed766
1)If you're in a relationship then why were you watching porn?
2)If you really want to know then invite her over, play the video with her and see her reaction.


Answer to 1: Its a long distance relationship, and she doesn't mind me watching porn.

Answer to 2: I could do this, but unsure as to whether I have the balls to do it, and also, it would be hard to fake been so precise as to pick that video. I'd have to type in the title of the video. Its buried amongst pages and pages of a particular search entry.
How unique are the towel, bed sheets, t shirt etc.?
Original post by Ahmed766
1)If you're in a relationship then why were you watching porn?


Lots of people in relationships watch porn.:curious:
Original post by Josb
Does the dick on the screen looks like one of her exes' (pay attention to the shape)?


Is this serious? Also- I haven't seen the Penises of her exes', so this theory wouldn't work. It certainly isn't me in the porn vid, I know that much!

One thing I did note, is that the guy had a bit of a belly on him. Not massively overweight, but podgy (like me)- had a beer gut. Seemed more like that of a middle-aged bloke. Though, can't judge by the cover, he could be a young lad.
you should watch it together :sexface:
Original post by RiotGirll
How unique are the towel, bed sheets, t shirt etc.?


The bedsheets are rather unique in their patterning. I think if I saw them again (at hers) I'd recognise straight away. I seem to recall vaguely that I've seen sheets of such sorts before. Whether in her old place (flat) or in the current house she lives. I've certainly seen them before.

The towel, is pretty recognisable. Its a simple tan brown towel. Very common. I can imagine many people have the same one. But I know for sure she has one anyways.

T-Shirt, same as towel. It is a plain one colour tee- (a shade of Red), which I have also seen her wear.
Original post by Josb
Does the dick on the screen looks like one of her exes' (pay attention to the shape)?

lul wut, how would he know what her previous bf's dinks looked like?
Reply 18
This thread is amazing.
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
The bedsheets are rather unique in their patterning. I think if I saw them again (at hers) I'd recognise straight away. I seem to recall vaguely that I've seen sheets of such sorts before. Whether in her old place (flat) or in the current house she lives. I've certainly seen them before.

The towel, is pretty recognisable. Its a simple tan brown towel. Very common. I can imagine many people have the same one. But I know for sure she has one anyways.

T-Shirt, same as towel. It is a plain one colour tee- (a shade of Red), which I have also seen her wear.

You should peruse her cupboards next time you see her.

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