Could you be in a long term relationship with a person that makes a minimum wage sala

Me and my partner are financially stable? Any body, even the CEO of NASA could lose their job tomorrow or the next day, it could happen to anybody. My partner lost his job 2 weeks before xmas last year and we survived. And we both live a comfortable life. We don't need a massive house and flash cars, we're happy with what we have - although a holiday wouldn't go amiss hah, but this is our choice not to save up for this, not because we couldn't afford to.

A man is meant to provide and be the bread winner

A man is meant to provide and be the bread winner

I'm definitely judgemental, but then so are we all. But I judge people on their actions, how they treat other people and whether I view their opinions and moral.



I'm certainly not racist, I find racism abhorrent and I would never and have never treated or viewed people differently on the grounds of race.

I think that makes more of a human being, as humans have faults.
But I am not excusing racism

Well that's misogynistic and homophobic.

He could lose his job, but finding another job would be easy, plus he would get a huge payoff.
Couples ate meant to live, and not survive and get by, as you're not a single parent on welfare.

That is your view based on arbitrary tradition and gender roles.



Not everyone myself included agrees with that view, there is no logical reason for women to be unable to provide.

I have never said that a woman could not provide, but in the majority of households, the man is the breadwinner.

Of course humans have faults, it's how they deal with those fault that matter.



Never said you were and frankly don't understand why you insinuated I am racist despite me never having commented on race on this thread nor have I said anything racist on this forum.

How on earth is that homophobic, I mean even in a gay household, one partner has to take on the leading role.

But tsr and the real world are two different things, I mean I know at some point you had a negative view or opinion in your head, that you would rather not share.

They've probably dodged a bullet with you then

A man is meant to provide and be the bread winner

Savage af.

of course they are? I never implied there weren't so I fail to see why you brought that up.

Of course I have had negative views in the past, the thing is opinions change. And I readily and often do hold my hands up and admit that yes something I said lets say 4 years ago was wrong and my opinion has changed.

I have never pretended to be the best person or to know everything. I readily admit that as I go through life my opinions and views change (though my values and who I am as a person have stayed rather consistent), but that does not take away from the fact I can still disagree and abhor some views.