Muslim TSR users, should I marry this man? Arranged Marriage

Have you met him? Spoken to him?

You need to like him you know. What happens if you disagree on things? He needs to treat you right, and you need to treat him right.

Find out more about him as a person.

can all the people against the idea of arranged marriage not comment , i wrote this for the purpose of Muslims to give me advice. i dont need your western 21st century comments.

Arranged marriage isn't technically Islamic btw

no but i will once the marriage is agreed. i would never be naive and go into a marriage without knowing if i was compatible with the person.

maybe spend some time getting to know him better i mean your DAD hasn't even spoken to him yet, and you wanna get married ?!
Get to know him, talk on the phone etc and then get married if you want.

Also why you ready to be a housewife and have a kid I mean you're only 19 and a lot of potential so why just waste it staying at home and popping out kids like... is that all you want out of life?

Idk who am i to judge, give it some thought and do what makes you happy.

EDIT: I'm Muslim btw

Have you met him? Spoken to him?

You need to like him you know. What happens if you disagree on things? He needs to treat you right, and you need to treat him right.

Find out more about him as a person.

Once the marriage is agreed..? And if you don't like him?

i cook and clean in the house as it is and understand the principles of being a good housewife in islam and understand the duties of being a wife.

This...he may fit all of the criteria but do you like him as a person, do you find him attractive...are you willing to spend the rest of your life with him?

If you want you can meet him, see if you get along and if you would like to marry him maybe suggest waiting a while until you're ready? Don't jump into it, it may turn out you both want different things and it's better you find that out before marriage than after...

Also pray istikhara.

love marriages arnt Islamic

i dont need your western 21st century comments.

yeah thats what im planning on doing. my dad knows him and this guy is looking for marriage, he might not even say yes but im thinking ahead. idk i just want to have a chill life, no work, no stress dedicate myself to my future kids

Arranged marriage isn't technically Islamic btw

like once my dad says will u marry my daughter basically. if i dont like him i can break it off at my own will

This is so backward and sick did you think you were going to get an answer here. You are only going to get a lot of hate and be judged. So your aspiration in life is nothing beside marrying this male because he is Islamic and has a degree. What if he isn't going to take care of you for the rest of your life. What you going to do about that.