Do you believe in the 'one'
The one that's meant for you, the one that your going to spend the rest of your life with, the one that no one else can compare too etc....
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Original post by Anonymous
The one that's meant for you, the one that your going to spend the rest of your life with, the one that no one else can compare too etc....
A device that people use to justify an emotional whim.
Some wake up 20 years later and realise it was bullshhit, others carry it until death.
I don't think you meet The One or are destined to be with them but I do believe that some people are better suited for someone than others and these people will become The One but I don't buy into the destiny idea. I think you make them that one person for you, it doesn't just happen, sometimes it never will 
Original post by BarryBeTrippin
A device that people use to justify an emotional whim.
Some wake up 20 years later and realise it was bullshhit, others carry it until death.
Some wake up 20 years later and realise it was bullshhit, others carry it until death.
The thought actually just gave me shivers
Original post by Anonymous
The thought actually just gave me shivers
I would hope so. It deserves a prominent place in the hall of the 'Greatest Human Time-wasting Inventions'.
Yep. I'm a firm believer in soul mates or what you call 'the one'
Original post by Treen98
I don't think you meet The One or are destined to be with them but I do believe that some people are better suited for someone than others and these people will become The One but I don't buy into the destiny idea. I think you make them that one person for you, it doesn't just happen, sometimes it never will
That's a pretty good explanation, but just imagine I meet the wrong person and I make them the one for me, but then there's someone out there who's better suited to me and I'm never gonna meet them
Original post by Anonymous
That's a pretty good explanation, but just imagine I meet the wrong person and I make them the one for me, but then there's someone out there who's better suited to me and I'm never gonna meet them
Yeah but tbh if they're not right then you'll struggle to idealise them that much more in order to over attach yourself? A bit of a crude explanation but I guess you've just got to go with your gut
Original post by nightwing51214
Yep. I'm a firm believer in soul mates or what you call 'the one'
Have you met them yet?
I'm definitely a believer in 'the one'. However, only fate can decide my destiny. 
Original post by Anonymous
Have you met them yet?
I believe I have. I'm just waiting for the 'confirmation' (i.e. time) so to speak
Original post by Anonymous
The one that's meant for you, the one that your going to spend the rest of your life with, the one that no one else can compare too etc....
Yeah I think so.
Original post by Anonymous
That's a pretty good explanation, but just imagine I meet the wrong person and I make them the one for me, but then there's someone out there who's better suited to me and I'm never gonna meet them
That's just the unavoidable consequence of living in a world that has more people in it than you'll ever have the time to meet.
I don't think your hypothetical scenario works with the 'wrong' person -- if you weren't compatible, then you'd struggle to form a long-term relationship with them, anyway. There's no point worrying about the possibility that there's somebody, somewhere with whom you're even more compatible than somebody you know now.
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Not one but perphaps some?
No, the world is too big. We just have to settle down with someone eventually, and pick them to be loyal to, love unconditionally but there's definitely someone out there that can also be the one. Probably even better.
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