I hate my friends, pls help me make new ones

In all honesty it's very difficult to make friends if you're not in halls. By your own admission it's difficult to make friends in societies, so I'd speak to the university about allowing you to stay in halls in second year. Pick the "party" halls too.

Societies are where you make all of your friends, OP.

If you struggle to make friends in societies, OP, I would suggest trying other societies, and failing that, I would reflect on yourself to figure out what is turning people away from hanging out with you.

'Turning people away from hanging out with you'
Wow, kick a girl when she's down

Thats what everyone told me but I haven't met anyone at all. Like I'll chat and then exchange numbers but thats as far as it goes. I wanted to join a few more societies but everyone has already formed there little groups so I don't want to be the only loner who turns up alone..

Thats what everyone told me but I haven't met anyone at all. Like I'll chat and then exchange numbers but thats as far as it goes. I wanted to join a few more societies but everyone has already formed there little groups so I don't want to be the only loner who turns up alone..

Other peoples networks. Once you have afew friends you cna break into their social networks.

Sources of friends imo:

Halls and accommodation - you dont have that option.

Coursemates/ tutorials - no group you sit with?.

Societies - You have to bite the bullet and go plus make an effort to introduce yourself and mingle/ take part. All part of socialising. It can be awkward as hell breaking into a group and may not be comfy for several weeks, but eventually they let you in. thats what the officers are for to make sure you get accepted.

Around campus- you say you turn up for lectures and then go home.

Outside Uni- but then its your home town, so you should know about that.

Other peoples networks. Once you have afew friends you cna break into their social networks.

If I were in your position I tend to talk to anyone of I am so minded.
I would do societies and stick at it.

The other thing I would try if I was in your position would be to cnnect with all the other students who are in a similar situation and I bet there are hundreds. I'd just advertise myself , say waht i was looking for and leave it open if anyone wnated to go for a drink, see a movie or just friendship up.

Not having friends would be too dull imo and it makes a big difference having someone to have lunch in the cafeteria with and chat about uni life. It will make uni seem like uni.

You need to make the effort and stick at it.

Hey thanks for the list. In terms of coursemates/tutorials, I haven't made any friends. My lectures are just too big plus most people live on campus. They attend lecture/tutorials to learn so not much talking is done tbh

Hey thanks for the list. In terms of coursemates/tutorials, I haven't made any friends. My lectures are just too big plus most people live on campus. They attend lecture/tutorials to learn so not much talking is done tbh

In all honesty it's very difficult to make friends if you're not in halls. By your own admission it's difficult to make friends in societies, so I'd speak to the university about allowing you to stay in halls in second year. Pick the "party" halls too.

Rubbish. Most people only stick with their hall mates during Freshers before moving on and forming friendships with people who you actually have something in common with, besides being randomly assigned to a flat together. In fact the vast majority of people I knew moved in 2nd year with course mates or people who they met through other aspects of uni life, not halls.