what are some reasons and excuses for ignoring someone AT SCHOOL

OP

shall I just say id rather not wait after class and if she asks why what shall I say . Shall o just say I don't want to ?? Can she tel off me then ??
and also what do I do when she wants me to work with her in class but I want to work on my own answer both plz 😊

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OP

Shall I just say IF she asks me why didn't u wait for me shall I just shrug and then after I will just say its personal and I don't want to say it. Can she tell the teacher off me if I do say that

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Original post by randomgirl995

shall I just say id rather not wait after class and if she asks why what shall I say . Shall o just say I don't want to ?? Can she tel off me then ??
and also what do I do when she wants me to work with her in class but I want to work on my own answer both plz 😊

First off, don't wait for her. Then IF she asks don't shrug but say "personal reasons. I'm sorry. I teally don't want to talk about it." If she goes to your teacher sbout this, then tell your teacher that for some reason you both disagree on many things, and rather than end up in an argument, you thought it was better to keep a distance.
Really, a girl who snitches for this is either really insecure or jealous of you, or both.

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Original post by randomgirl995

Shall I just say IF she asks me why didn't u wait for me shall I just shrug and then after I will just say its personal and I don't want to say it. Can she tell the teacher off me if I do say that

Don't shrug though. That might look a bit iffy.

And when you say "personal reasons" try not to make it sound rehearsed. If it does though, doesn't matter.

I don't think that's a reason for her to go to the teachers, but some people are just born snitches and take everything out of proportion.

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OP

What if she does go to the teacher ?? I don't want to be called into the office

Reply 13

OP

she also comes to me at lunch time and I will have my earphones in or something and what do I do if she keeps talking?? And also do I just say its personal reasons

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Original post by randomgirl995

What if she does go to the teacher ?? I don't want to be called into the office

I already explained that in reply above -I've quoted you twice so there's 2 replies. If she does happen to go to the teacher (which is very petty of her) then tell the teacher this: for some reason you both disagree on many things, and rather than end up in an argument and make things worse, you think it is better to keep a distance.

Also, let your parents know that you are trying to avoid her as she twists everything around and is getting you in trouble.
On the off chance that your parents are called in, they can vouch for you. Teachers will be more likely to listen to the parent than you, and you parents can say it in a way you can't.

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OP

What do I do about the lunch time situation that I mentioned above 😊

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Original post by randomgirl995

What do I do about the lunch time situation that I mentioned above 😊

Earphones are a good idea. Or read a book and be so engrossed in it, you end up blanking her.
Also, don't go in the usual area that you hang out at lunch time. Go somewhere else, if your school is big enough. Maybe join in some games like football, if anyone plays. Or do homework so you don't need to do that at home. Or you could do what I did sometimes, and go to sleep. If your school allows you to keep mobile phones with you, you could spend time on that too.
You could also go hang out with other friends.

And yes, i would go with personal reasons, if she asks.
I hope this helps and doesn't make things worse. Don't say anything rude or horrible to her, and keep your tone soft or nuetral.

Reply 17

OP

I'm kinda worried about saying that its a personal reason. I'm worried bc idk why but I'm really worried bc she will twist it all around and she will get angry and start a fight infront of everyone. I was wondering what else I can do? Shall I just walk normally and then walk with her but just be on my phone or something on the way to lesson bc I'm worried about saying that . Idk what for but I am ?? And plus at lunch time she comes to where I hang out and there are no other places so we are always there and I will have my earphones in but idk what to say when Ishe asks me why o didn't walk with her. I don't want to say personal reasons is there anything else? I can do ? Shall I just walk with her

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Original post by randomgirl995

I'm kinda worried about saying that its a personal reason. I'm worried bc idk why but I'm really worried bc she will twist it all around and she will get angry and start a fight infront of everyone. I was wondering what else I can do? Shall I just walk normally and then walk with her but just be on my phone or something on the way to lesson bc I'm worried about saying that . Idk what for but I am ?? And plus at lunch time she comes to where I hang out and there are no other places so we are always there and I will have my earphones in but idk what to say when Ishe asks me why o didn't walk with her. I don't want to say personal reasons is there anything else? I can do ? Shall I just walk with her

If you don't want to say personal reasons that's fine :hugs:

You could just be anti social etc and stay on your phone?

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