He wants my nudes to prove trust but we not together
Basically there's this guy it's not like we had been speaking properly at school but after he's seems to have an interest recently he has been asking for my nudes maybe because he knows someone had sent me his. He very anxious and doesn't want to give up. He keeps saying he wants to see to know what he's handling but I don't understand what that means. I have a feeling he doesn't like me he had kissed me a couple of months ago but nothing ever changed. Is he trying to use me or trying to pay back with revenge and expose me. Do u think he wants to be with me?
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Original post by Anonymous
Basically there's this guy it's not like we had been speaking properly at school but after he's seems to have an interest recently he has been asking for my nudes maybe because he knows someone had sent me his. He very anxious and doesn't want to give up. He keeps saying he wants to see to know what he's handling but I don't understand what that means. I have a feeling he doesn't like me he had kissed me a couple of months ago but nothing ever changed. Is he trying to use me or trying to pay back with revenge and expose me. Do u think he wants to be with me?
Yeah I don't think he wants nudes for trust reasons. He probably just wants to bash one out over you in reality.
He's a creep. Tell him you need his nudes first, and see how he reacts 
Original post by Anonymous
Basically there's this guy it's not like we had been speaking properly at school but after he's seems to have an interest recently he has been asking for my nudes maybe because he knows someone had sent me his. He very anxious and doesn't want to give up. He keeps saying he wants to see to know what he's handling but I don't understand what that means. I have a feeling he doesn't like me he had kissed me a couple of months ago but nothing ever changed. Is he trying to use me or trying to pay back with revenge and expose me. Do u think he wants to be with me?
Stop wasting what little brainpower you an afford on this nonsense and just say no. If you gave them him then you are vulnerable to anyone he shares them with and they could be on the internet sooner than you realise. You should destroy his as well.
Sorry to be harsh but grow up and say no. Trust reasons. How does sending nudes correlate to trust? Don't trust him is what you need to do. What will you do if he shares these nudes or even puts them online? Revenge porn is devasting. Common sense will tell you to say NO.
Original post by Anonymous
Basically there's this guy it's not like we had been speaking properly at school but after he's seems to have an interest recently he has been asking for my nudes maybe because he knows someone had sent me his. He very anxious and doesn't want to give up. He keeps saying he wants to see to know what he's handling but I don't understand what that means. I have a feeling he doesn't like me he had kissed me a couple of months ago but nothing ever changed. Is he trying to use me or trying to pay back with revenge and expose me. Do u think he wants to be with me?
honestly he is just using you, PLEASE do not send him any nudes and just give up on him, he is not a nice person.
Original post by Anonymous
Basically there's this guy it's not like we had been speaking properly at school but after he's seems to have an interest recently he has been asking for my nudes maybe because he knows someone had sent me his. He very anxious and doesn't want to give up. He keeps saying he wants to see to know what he's handling but I don't understand what that means. I have a feeling he doesn't like me he had kissed me a couple of months ago but nothing ever changed. Is he trying to use me or trying to pay back with revenge and expose me. Do u think he wants to be with me?
If you are under 18, then sending or receiving nude images is illegal whether or not they are to or from someone who is also under 18 - even if it's a selfie.
Sharing images or even receiving them could result in a criminal prosecution and registration on the sex offences register. It could seriously affect your whole life, education, university, employment prospects - even travel to other countries for a holiday.
Don't do it not for him or for anyone. If he continues pressuring you, report him to your school. He may well be grooming you and potentially breaking the law.
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/keeping-children-safe/sexting/
https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/online-mobile-safety/sexting/
If you are concerned about this, ring the Childline on 0800 1111
Original post by artful_lounger
He's a creep. Tell him you need his nudes first, and see how he reacts
She said she has his already.
The advice from the study helper is spot on. In any case, why would you want to give him something that he will probably look at whilst pleasuring himself.
Original post by artful_lounger
He's a creep. Tell him you need his nudes first, and see how he reacts
She already has his nudes
Original post by 999tigger
She said she has his already.
So, OP said he "knows" somebody sent them, they can play coy and pretend that nobody sent them anything.
Original post by artful_lounger
So, OP said he "knows" somebody sent them, they can play coy and pretend that nobody sent them anything.
So now she is a hypocrite and a liar/ deceitful, but you are calling him a creep. Mmm ok.
Basically he had sent the pictures but not to me but I had then got them sent to me he now wants to have mine nudes but doesn't want to have of the person that he sent his nudes to. Btw he had indirectly said that he want some to know how I look like inside to **** me and apparently there could be a turning point as I'm showing trust
Stay away!!
@qasim_96 OML ROSES ARE RED...I ENJOY WEARING LEATHER
Original post by AryanGh
@qasim_96 OML ROSES ARE RED...I ENJOY WEARING LEATHER
I wonder why he's asking for nudes 🤔
Original post by qasim_96
I wonder why he's asking for nudes 🤔
A Level art final piece innit
Ffs, just tell him to **** off. Not rocket science.
Original post by Anonymous
Basically he had sent the pictures but not to me but I had then got them sent to me he now wants to have mine nudes but doesn't want to have of the person that he sent his nudes to. Btw he had indirectly said that he want some to know how I look like inside to **** me and apparently there could be a turning point as I'm showing trust
Don't send. It's obvious that he's anxious that you have his nudes and knows that you could expose him at any time so the reason he wants yours is so that he could get you back if you ever did decide to share his. He wants leverage against you basically, don't give it to him.
This is why we need religion and guidance from God to prevent us from getting into stupidity like this.
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