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I'm terrified of having sex.

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Reply 60
Original post by loveleest
but this isnt true. Do you have any proof to back up your sexist claims? because pornstars get married pretty easy.


Generally it's true, and it's not sexist, it's based on biology, logic and how things are in reality. Stop with your feminist assertions.
Original post by slade p
Generally it's true, and it's not sexist, it's based on biology, logic and how things are in reality. Stop with your feminist assertions.


It is sexist. You love sleeping around yourself but you "look down" on women that do.
This is showing how insecure you really are and feminism has nothing to do with it.
Reply 62
Original post by loveleest
It is sexist. You love sleeping around yourself but you "look down" on women that do.
This is showing how insecure you really are and feminism has nothing to do with it.


It has nothing to do with insecurity sweety, and as I say yes it lessens their value if they sleep around a lot, I didn't say I would not date them or sleep with them, but it's also much more likely that girls who sleep around a lot will most likely also be feminists.
OP - when the time is right I'm sure your chosen partner will lick you into shape. Then you will not be scared anymore.
Original post by slade p
It has nothing to do with insecurity sweety, and as I say yes it lessens their value if they sleep around a lot, I didn't say I would not date them or sleep with them, but it's also much more likely that girls who sleep around a lot will most likely also be feminists.


"Lessens their value" Women are not objects.
And you keep making weird false statements, the last is not true as I am a virgin and a feminist.
Original post by bones-mccoy
You are gross

Do you really think I was serious?:tongue: I was only joking as it is a habit of mine:colone:
Reply 66
Original post by loveleest
"Lessens their value" Women are not objects.
And you keep making weird false statements, the last is not true as I am a virgin and a feminist.


I never said you can't be a virgin and a feminist, I said if your a girl who sleeps around with lots of guys then they are most likely to also be feminists.

Feminism is a self serving movement to give women more priviledges and specifically advance women's position in the fields that they desire while also having invalid views, accusations and narratives about men because of their anti male mentality and agenda which is why feminism is a scourge to society. Men are being blatantly disadvantaged by feminist policies in the name of women's right or supposed equality.
Original post by slade p
I never said you can't be a virgin and a feminist, I said if your a girl who sleeps around with lots of guys then they are most likely to also be feminists.

Feminism is a self serving movement to give women more priviledges and specifically advance women's position in the fields that they desire while also having invalid views, accusations and narratives about men because of their anti male mentality and agenda which is why feminism is a scourge to society. Men are being blatantly disadvantaged by feminist policies in the name of women's right or supposed equality.


Any statistics to prove this nonsense?
I find it so funny when people say things like this. Feminists have cared more about men now then ever before.
Reply 68
Original post by loveleest
Any statistics to prove this nonsense?
I find it so funny when people say things like this. Feminists have cared more about men now then ever before.


That's absolute nonsense.
Original post by slade p
It has nothing to do with insecurity sweety, and as I say yes it lessens their value if they sleep around a lot, I didn't say I would not date them or sleep with them, but it's also much more likely that girls who sleep around a lot will most likely also be feminists.


Apparently, you've never heard the old saying "better to have people think you're a moron than open your mouth and prove it."

Seriously, if you had any awareness of what an undereducated imbecile you sound like, you'd end up crying into the stack of Razzles you stole from your dad to make yourself feel like a big man rather than a little boy with a tiny penis.

We get it, you're a virgin with self-confidence issues. I can get you the number for a good therapist if you'd like?
Original post by Anonymous
I've been seeing this girl and she tried to initiate sex with me. I was fine at first but then when she tried to take my clothes off I panicked and told her to stop. I was close to having a panic attack. I don't know what to do. I'm 20 and I don't want to be a virgin forever but when it comes to actually having sex I can't do it. I feel like I'm doing something wrong and ashamed of myself when I try to do it. How do I get past this?



sure someone has said this before (i dont read every comment-deal with it). Just ask to take it slow. Sounds like you probably rushed it a bit (or your partner did)-thats never a great way to to "lose your virginity".

Or maybe if you feel weird showing your body (ok i read SOME comments and saw that), spend time together-in private-and try taking some clothes off slowly and just spending time around her, see if that eases your mind. Hopefully your partner, whoever they are, isn't angry at you for shutting them down like that, is a bit understanding and will try and make you feel more comfortable by telling you how beautiful you are or something.

Oh and you hopefully dont need to be told this, but you are under no obligation to be rushed into something like that if you dont want to. Im guessing they also dont want to make you have a panic attack too, no one wants to deal with that because how tf do they help you? If they aren't willing to be patient while you deal with these thoughts, they don't damn well deserve you.
Reply 71
Original post by Kandiman
Apparently, you've never heard the old saying "better to have people think you're a moron than open your mouth and prove it."

Seriously, if you had any awareness of what an undereducated imbecile you sound like, you'd end up crying into the stack of Razzles you stole from your dad to make yourself feel like a big man rather than a little boy with a tiny penis.

We get it, you're a virgin with self-confidence issues. I can get you the number for a good therapist if you'd like?



Lmao at your assertions which you are just assuming because you're so butthurt and so is throwing tantrums like a woman, you also sound like an absolute idiot and a feminist yielding simp.
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Original post by slade p
That's absolute nonsense.


Feminsits have address masculinity and mental health in males than ever before.
Reply 73
Original post by loveleest
Feminsits have address masculinity and mental health in males than ever before.


That does not take away from everything else that feminists are perpetuating and demanding, also even if feminists did that they most likely are doing it because they want to feminise men by encouraging men to have feminine traits so that their feminist agenda can pushed more easier.
Original post by slade p
That does not take away from everything else that feminists are perpetuating and demanding, also even if feminists did that they most likely are doing it because they want to feminise men by encouraging men to have feminine traits so that their feminist agenda can pushed more easier.


trying to feminise men for talking about mental health and depression? I can't believe thr BS I am reading.
Original post by slade p
Lmao at your assertions which you are just assuming because you're so butthurt and so is throwing tantrums like a woman, you also sound like an absolute idiot and a feminist yielding simp.


Poor child, it must be so hard being that stupid. Do we need to get mummy to put you down for your nap?

Nobody who brags about being a lothario the amount you do is actually having sex. You're projecting a fantasy to mask your insecurities. A psychiatrist can help.

As for your assumption that I'm a feminist... that's brilliantly retarded. I'm a men's rights activist; third wave feminism is the greatest social disease of our time, so you're wide of the mark entirely. But I expect nothing else from a red pill cuck like yourself, "sweetie."
Original post by slade p
It has nothing to do with insecurity sweety, and as I say yes it lessens their value if they sleep around a lot, I didn't say I would not date them or sleep with them, but it's also much more likely that girls who sleep around a lot will most likely also be feminists.


All your arguments have consisted of so far is patronising the other person and pushing your own opinions onto them. Just because you judge women for sleeping around (yet not men??) doesn't mean decent people won't.
Reply 77
Original post by Kandiman
Poor child, it must be so hard being that stupid. Do we need to get mummy to put you down for your nap?

Nobody who brags about being a lothario the amount you do is actually having sex. You're projecting a fantasy to mask your insecurities. A psychiatrist can help.

As for your assumption that I'm a feminist... that's brilliantly retarded. I'm a men's rights activist; third wave feminism is the greatest social disease of our time, so you're wide of the mark entirely. But I expect nothing else from a red pill cuck like yourself, "sweetie."



Lmao i guess that's why you are having a hissy fit like a woman. But i hardly mention it usually so you're chatting b.s, i have only mentioned it on a post on here. Why are you mentioning red pill, i'm not a mgtow you fool, so i don't use such terms, you're the one who is a men's rights activist and good for you for being that, you can be used as useful idiots against feminists by anti feminists like me.

All in all you sound like a silly little boy.
Reply 78
Original post by bones-mccoy
All your arguments have consisted of so far is patronising the other person and pushing your own opinions onto them. Just because you judge women for sleeping around (yet not men??) doesn't mean decent people won't.


That's a double negative meaning that that other people will judge like me. you were meant to say "doesn' mean decent people will"
Why is this thread so popular?!
And of course there is an off-topic argument going on.

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