Why don&#x27;t I have a boyfriend?

Original post by Tango_1771

No...but can we all stop posting on this thread because the notifications are getting annoying

then why did you make the thread? A bit silly don't you think...

Reply 42

Original post by loveleest

I have seen plenty of guys here insist me and other women, not only the OP to approach guys first *sigh*
I just think many men are lazy and expect women to do all the work. If there are a lot of guys that approach then women shouldn't have to IMO. It's just traditional...that doesn't mean OP is entitled.

stop this agenda.

Reply 43

loveleest

Original post by trapking

stop this agenda.

Lmao😂 but I am not lying at all and you know it.
Guys on here can deny is all they want but they know the truth deep down😩

Reply 44

username1044970

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Original post by loveleest

I have seen plenty of guys here insist me and other women, not only the OP to approach guys first *sigh*
I just think many men are lazy and expect women to do all the work. If there are a lot of guys that approach then women shouldn't have to IMO. It's just traditional...that doesn't mean OP is entitled.

If you’re not getting asked out, then make the first move. Stop whining about guys not making an effort when 99% of the time, they’re still expected to do so. You can call it “traditional” if you like, but entitlement is always unattractive. I personally respect those who are willing to take the initiate in whatever they do, regardless of sex. LOL’d at men being “lazy”. I’m not going to dignify that with a response. Honestly, some of you entitled women remind me of the so-called “nice guys” online who whine in a similar manner.

Reply 45

Original post by loveleest

Lmao😂 but I am not lying at all and you know it.
Guys on here can deny is all they want but they know the truth deep down😩

No. You're acting like all the women on this earth are entitled to get approached first and if men don't approach it is therefore an insult to the female population.

So stop this nonsense now. Women can approach if they want to....just because it's "traditional" doesn't mean it's bad if a woman does it. A guy will approach if he wants to approach same with a woman. End of story.

Reply 46

loveleest

Original post by Dima-Blackburn

If you’re not getting asked out, then make the first move. Stop whining about guys not making an effort when 99% of the time, they’re still expected to do so. You can call it “traditional” if you like, but entitlement is always unattractive. I personally respect those who are willing to take the initiate in whatever they do, regardless of sex. LOL’d at men being “lazy”. I’m not going to dignify that with a response. Honestly, some of you entitled women remind me of the so-called “nice guys” online who whine in a similar manner.

Nope. Definitely not entitled. As a girl that hardly ever gets asked out/approached by guys it is frustrating so I see where OP is coming from. I always thought that if guys were really interested in a girl then he would have the confidence to approach her. I just feel like a girl doing the chasing is just...weird. Eventually you will end up feeling unwanted.

Reply 47

loveleest

Original post by trapking

No. You're acting like all the women on this earth are entitled to get approached first and if men don't approach it is therefore an insult to the female population.

So stop this nonsense now. Women can approach if they want to....just because it's "traditional" doesn't mean it's bad if a woman does it. A guy will approach if he wants to approach same with a woman. End of story.

So if a women doesn't want to approach a guy the only option would be the stay single? What kind of nonsense is that?

Reply 48

Original post by loveleest

So if a women doesn't want to approach a guy the only option would be the stay single? What kind of nonsense is that?

Awwh boo hoo, the guy is SO evil/bad/lazy/(insert any bad word) for not wanting to approach a woman. Omg men are SO trash...

Listen to yourself rn seriously :lol:

Sometimes you have to make the first move, guys aren't always going to make the first move. For example an acquaintance of mine who has been married to his wife for 10 years....SHE made the first move to make him notice her and the rest is history. So stop moaning and spouting this b.s.

Reply 49

username1044970

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Original post by loveleest

Nope. Definitely not entitled. As a girl that hardly ever gets asked out/approached by guys it is frustrating so I see where OP is coming from. I always thought that if guys were really interested in a girl then he would have the confidence to approach her. I just feel like a girl doing the chasing is just...weird. Eventually you will end up feeling unwanted.

Entitlement: the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment

No one cares if entitlement frustrates you. There’s nothing special about your XX chromosomes. Again, change your mentality or you’ll end up on r/incels: https://www.reddit.com/r/Incels/

Reply 50

username1044970

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Original post by loveleest

So if a women doesn't want to approach a guy the only option would be the stay single? What kind of nonsense is that?

Erm, yes, your Highness? If a guy doesn’t want to approach anyone and isn’t getting asked out, then he’s no more entitled to dating than you are. Jesus Christ, just listen to yourself :lol:

Reply 51

flatline

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Original post by loveleest

So if a women doesn't want to approach a guy the only option would be the stay single? What kind of nonsense is that?

Why do you think you're entitled to a guy approaching you? It doesn't even make any sense, you can't be mad about them not approaching/asking you out if you're not putting in the any real effort ffs. Stop being a mental midget.

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 52

UWS

Original post by loveleest

Why does the girl have to make the first move all the time nowadays?

They don't.

Don't try switch things around now.

Reply 53

aerofanatic

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Original post by FriendlyPenguin

Yes, it is racist. Just because it is implicit (rather than something the racist 'decided' to discriminate against) doesn't reduce that fact.

No it isn't. It is a fact that people identify more with people like themselves. You're not seeing any race as more or less superior - you just merely have more of a sexual inclination to members of a particular race. You do it too so don't pretend you don't.

Reply 54

Sonal Maharjan

4

Because you are unique.
It's common nowadays to have a boyfriend. Plus having a boyfriend means having the chances of having your heartbroken also.
You don't have to be worried. When time will come, you will get one.
There is always someone made for us....
Be patience.

Reply 55

username2406123

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Carpe ~~diem~~ your bae.

Reply 56

eden3

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Original post by loveleest

So if a women doesn't want to approach a guy the only option would be the stay single? What kind of nonsense is that?

Absolutely. Delusional entitled feminists deserve to stay single forever. No-one owes you ****. It goes both ways.

Reply 57

Dysf(x)al

Original post by generallee

Maybe because you are a racist??

People are people. You can find love whatever the skin colour of the other person.

Racism is extremely unattractive to the opposite sex. It is to your own sex too, actually.

That isn't racism. Not being attracted to people of a certain race isn't racist. If it was, that would make everyone who wasn't pansexual a sexist. That said, broadening your horizons is always good.

Reply 58

Anonymous #3

Original post by Tango_1771

Fff

There is something called FIFA 😂 does that answer your question ?

Reply 59

Dysf(x)al