Why do blokeish guys always laugh at me?

I am gay and act a bit feminine, although not a flaming homosexual either. Do they have a problem or is it me?

you've answered your own question

I don't get it though. What's so amusing about being gay or having some feminine traits? They don't even know my sexuality, and although I am different to them, I don't get why that should be funny, or even saying "hello" is all of a sudden hilarious. Plus, I do know a few guys who are more feminine than me, and they seem to never be bothered by the lads.

Are straight guys capable of accepting other people who don't conform to gender stereotypes?

I don't get it though. What's so amusing about being gay or having some feminine traits? They don't even know my sexuality, and although I am different to them, I don't get why that should be funny, or even saying "hello" is all of a sudden hilarious. Plus, I do know a few guys who are more feminine than me, and they seem to never be bothered by the lads.

Are straight guys capable of accepting other people who don't conform to gender stereotypes?

The same folks have done it for 4 years. Since I started high school, so nothing cringey has influenced it. I feel pity for them if they are still laughing about it, TBH.

Maybe I should act even gayer and see how they find that.

probably not a good idea if it bothers you that much

Hello.
When I am in high school and am around blokeish guys, even a 1 word response, such as "Hello" makes them start giggling with each other. I am gay and act a bit feminine, although not a flaming homosexual either. Do they have a problem or is it me?

It's just persistent and comes from more than one group of people. I have been told by other people to not act gay around lads though. They are the worst, and are the reason why I don't like to mix with straight guys.

The giggling isn't the only bad thing. There is one guy who keeps asking "Do you love me?". Another gave me tips for anal. Nice.

Used to be in the same position as you but it changed when I punched a guy 3 years old (I was year 8) because he told me he was going to teach me how to act and speak and that if I didn't listen, he'd beat me up😐. Kind of hard to punch a 6 foot 1 guy in year 8 but managed to do it as a 5 foot 5 kid back then...still not sure how. Wouldn't advise anyone to ever do that and it doesn't seem that you'd need to- I just went to a really homophobic school.

I would personally act "interested" in one of the guys that laughs at you because you may get a blush out of him.

Used to be in the same position as you but it changed when I punched a guy 3 years old (I was year 8) because he told me he was going to teach me how to act and speak and that if I didn't listen, he'd beat me up😐. Kind of hard to punch a 6 foot 1 guy in year 8 but managed to do it as a 5 foot 5 kid back then...still not sure how. Wouldn't advise anyone to ever do that and it doesn't seem that you'd need to- I just went to a really homophobic school.

I would personally act "interested" in one of the guys that laughs at you because you may get a blush out of him.

they think your as straight as a roundabout. Get a girlfriend and they'll back off.

At least that means that I act reasonably gay, if straight guys can tell.

I certainly won't get a girlfriend though. It's like cheating. There would be 0 point at the end of the day, since there would be no chance of it lasting, nor would there be any love whatsoever. If I am going to make the effort to find a partner, I would at least want it to be the gender which I am attracted to.

Nice job standing up to them!

As for the BIB - that sounds fun. None of them are my type anyway (at all), but how could I do that? Maybe that will shut them up.

no im saying legit look for a girlfriend. you know, two birds with one stone. like actually have an invested relationship thats not for the sole purpose of making these guys thing ur not gay

Why look for a girlfriend? Surely we have established that I am gay, so getting a girlfriend wouldn't work out. I'm not changing my dating life to suit them.

i thought the whole point was to prove you weren't gay just effeminate. Just embrace it then. get a boyfriend, if they judge you tell them they are homophobic pricks, literally everyone else will back you up

Hopefully the others will back me up. Maybe if I tried to be friends with more girls, then they would quit it, as they wouldn't want to get on the wrong side of them. Some of these folks will be gone after this year, although some will still be there. I am going to try to make an effort to find a boyfriend next year (although it may be difficult), but let's see...
Certainly got nothing to prove to these guys. If they judge me then they can go away.