I like girls and i am a girl and I think, personally, that a good personality is something very attractive. Also your will. To me looks don't matter cause I mean..they didn't choose to look th way they did. Just cause they may look bad doesn't mean they are bad.

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Anonymous #2

If you're actually funny and attractive that's pretty good to be honest

Reply 17

Gavin2016

Original post by Anonymous

yeah but what kind of size is "best" in your opinion? like do you find stick thin girls attractive or prefer curvier?

The clearest most decent way I could put this is that generally most people whether make or female are not at their best if overweight/very overweight. It would be the same for me as anyone else that almost anyone would look unattractive if overweight.

Some guys are less tuned into a girl's size but most to be honest are. It's just a point of nature that most of us are superficial both male and female whether we like to admit it or not. If you're looking to lose weight then joining something like 'slimming world' or similar can help. I know of a couple of people that have lost weight that way as it's nearly always about learning about good nutrition and sticking to such a plan. It may take a good few months or more but slowly it usually works. Those that have been overweight that I know of usually didn't have much of an idea about what foods were bad for nutrition/calories/putting on weight.

Beyond that I would say most people don't look like film stars, most of us are everyday looking. Some stylish clothing can help especially for women but again that tends to only work if you have at least a normal size frame to carry it off on. So buy clothes after any possibly needed weight loss, the BMI or scales, mirror, GP, etc will give you an idea if you need to lose weight. Athletic is usually the ideal which means treadmill type of workout for girls. However, it's not essential, most guys are happy with a normal size girl.

That all said I would say for guys as well as girls for those with natural film star looks life is usually a lot more easier as far more people tend to socialize and want to date them without them having make much effort. Unfortunately most of us me included don't fall into that group and need to make a lot more effort. That's life so same for me as many others and keeps it a challenge I guess.

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username2861570

Tiddies

Jk, I find a girl attractive if she's funny and compassionate.

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

Thanks - I'm actually underweight not overweight but I've always wondered if boys prefer the thin/model look or a slightly curvier/more "normal" shape