what makes a guy ''marriage material''?

Anonymous #1

like what kinds of qualities or characteristics (including physical) make you think you'd want to marry a guy?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

-friendly
-honest
-understanding
-mature
-caring & affectionate

Reply 2

username5173262

Time to take notes :pcguru:

Reply 3

username5445420

None, because I'm not gay.

If he hangs low

Original post by Anonymous

-friendly
-honest
-understanding
-mature
-caring & affectionate

I back this

Original post by Anonymous

like what kinds of qualities or characteristics (including physical) make you think you'd want to marry a guy?

Non-needy as in he shouldn't be seeking approval from me or peers; should be happy with himself. He has to be big as I don't feel as safe around guys that aren't big as in muscles and height. On this note he should be very dominant over public situations so that he can back me up in an argument or heck a physical conflict; giving out strong body language to let other guys to back off. Smart and understanding, always curious to ask questions and understand more. He must 200% respect my boundaries as well as have his own set boundaries in which I nor anyone can trespass. Honest and straight forward without wearing a mask or fake personality. Must be able to put a spell on me as in love because there are some guys for many reasons almost make me feel sick when they flirt. Gotta have good morals alongside christian.

The most important thing is a man must have his eyes set forward, wants a family, a house, steady multiple sources of income etc. I'm blessed to have a man like I do but glad I have been strict on only getting with guys who meet my requirements

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b447m

intelligent and a good sense of humour :smile:

being able to joke around is 100% the most important thing (aside from being kind, obviously), ive dated guys who wouldnt be considered conventionally attractive but had a great sense of humour, theyre the types you'd want to settle down with in the end

Reply 7

londonmyst

Always keeps promises, calm, stable lifestyle, mature, intelligent, dog friendly, healthy, secular, strong work ethic, attractive, employed or has regular employment history, ambitious, sexually compatible and fully committed to being a father for at least 18 years.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

like what kinds of qualities or characteristics (including physical) make you think you'd want to marry a guy?

its the same as the things I look for in a guy that I want to date

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Anonymous #4

Waiting to see who adds "thicccccccc wallet" to the list.

Reply 10

chelsea.uri

Original post by Anonymous

like what kinds of qualities or characteristics (including physical) make you think you'd want to marry a guy?

A black man of God

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Anonymous #5

Original post by chelsea.uri

A black man of God

What if he’s white or brown?...

Reply 12

Mehvij12345

Original post by Anonymous

like what kinds of qualities or characteristics (including physical) make you think you'd want to marry a guy?

Maybe make sure ....He is not already married yet?

Reply 13

chelsea.uri

Original post by Anonymous

What if he’s white or brown?...

I don’t mind lol
I just prefer black men

Reply 14

Smeraldettoi

None because I am gay

Reply 15

Anonymous #6

Tall.
Respectful.
Kind.
Caring.
Having his life in good shape, eg good job, financially secure etc.

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Bushyasta

Original post by FairyVibes

I back this

Non-needy as in he shouldn't be seeking approval from me or peers; should be happy with himself. He has to be big as I don't feel as safe around guys that aren't big as in muscles and height. On this note he should be very dominant over public situations so that he can back me up in an argument or heck a physical conflict; giving out strong body language to let other guys to back off. Smart and understanding, always curious to ask questions and understand more. He must 200% respect my boundaries as well as have his own set boundaries in which I nor anyone can trespass. Honest and straight forward without wearing a mask or fake personality. Must be able to put a spell on me as in love because there are some guys for many reasons almost make me feel sick when they flirt. Gotta have good morals alongside christian.

The most important thing is a man must have his eyes set forward, wants a family, a house, steady multiple sources of income etc. I'm blessed to have a man like I do but glad I have been strict on only getting with guys who meet my requirements

Since you are so demanding and you wrote an essay asking apart from everything else a big guy, tall, and with a lot of muscle, can you please remind the audience what is your height and how you would describe the yourself. I just want to see where the irony meter is this evening..

Reply 17

Bushyasta

Original post by Anonymous

Tall.
Respectful.
Kind.
Caring.
Having his life in good shape, eg good job, financially secure etc.

Here we go with the height again... There were so many threads in the past couple of weeks with short girls demanding to get talk guys. Can you remind us of your height please?

Reply 18

FluffyAkitaBoy

Original post by Bushyasta

Ok

Here we go with the height again... There were so many threads in the past couple of weeks with short girls demanding to get talk guys. Can you remind us of your height please?