Always trust your gut instinct and put your own health & ambitions first.
Do not waste your own time or any man's by agreeing to a marriage that you do not want.
Particularly not one solely based on your family members approval of his background or friendship with his relatives.
It is your life, your future and your right to decide whether you are willing to get married & if so when and to whom.
Marriage is a very serious lifelong commitment and making the wrong choice of spouse can have devastating consequences.
If you feel that marriage is a part of your future plans, decide upon your marriage dealbreakers that you need any potential husband to be compatible with and a few dealbreakers of things that you will never tolerate in a spouse.
Then get to know single guys looking to get married and check that they are compatible with all your dealbreakers.
In terms of their: ambitions, body appearance, citizenships, employment & personal backgrounds, health, habits, income, religious beliefs, standard of living, values and work ethic.
Take your time and listen to what your common sense is telling you.
Above all- stick to your marriage dealbreakers and do not allow anyone to bully or try to humiliate you for any of your dealbreakers.
Good luck!