Thought on boyfriend watching porn?

Lies lead to more lies. What else would he be willing to lie about?<---- rhetorical question


Approach him about it, if he still lies, might be time to break it up chickadee. He's watching other girls have sex to be blunt. How long till he wants to have sex with someone who isn't you while you're dating? <-------------- also rhetorical question

I like this answer. And I completely agree. Thank you <3

Why would he want to watch it?

That’s a good question, I’m not sure!

Hi!! So I wondered how other people thought about their significant other watching porn. It makes me uncomfortable, and he is aware of that. I know that it is his own thing that he does on his own time, but I feel like it is somewhat disrespectful. In a way I understand for sure, but I don’t know what is crossing the line. One thing I know for sure is that I don’t like how he lies to me about it. I saw that he had been watching it on his phone and he point out blank lied to my face and swore he would never do that behind my back. I’ve come around to somewhat accept the fact he watches porn, because I can’t control what he does and what he likes to do in his free time. I hate how he lies to my face, and it is hard to know what to believe or not believe without proof. Advice?? Is anyone going through a similar situation?? I told him that i want him to do what he wants to do and be his best self he wants to be, but I don’t want to be lied to. Thanks guys

Lies lead to more lies. What else would he be willing to lie about?<---- rhetorical question


Approach him about it, if he still lies, might be time to break it up chickadee. He's watching other girls have sex to be blunt. How long till he wants to have sex with someone who isn't you while you're dating? <-------------- also rhetorical question

I think this is too harsh. he is probably lying about it because he thinks or knows she disapproves and doesn't want to get into an argument/beef about it.

he does not see porn as cheating or being unfaithful (very few men do)

his lie in his eyes is a white lie to avoid agro.

men viewing porn isn't uncommon.

statistically over 70% of males view porn so if he's going to be dumped over this most likely the next guy who OP gets with is going to be a porn viewer also

It's not okay to lie to one's partner to avoid arguing about something they don't want you to do. Good relationships are founded on good communication - you need to be willing to have these discussions, rather than just trying to "avoid aggro".

It's fair to say many men watch porn, and many would see it as acceptable to watch while in a relationship. The OP is uncomfortable with it, though, and that's what matters here. It may be that the OP and her partner are basically incompatible on this issue, in which case it'd probably be best if they broke up, rather than going through all this arguing and deception.

It's not okay to lie to one's partner to avoid arguing about something they don't want you to do. Good relationships are founded on good communication - you need to be willing to have these discussions, rather than just trying to "avoid aggro".

It's fair to say many men watch porn, and many would see it as acceptable to watch while in a relationship. The OP is uncomfortable with it, though, and that's what matters here. It may be that the OP and her partner are basically incompatible on this issue, in which case it'd probably be best if they broke up, rather than going through all this arguing and deception.

hey homie!!