My love life has been incredibly ... questionable.
I am 26 old and have been single for a very very long time. I am a pretty woman, well educated, funny etc,. But I am not attracting the right types of men.
I have been on Hinge since the start of January. I have been on dates with many many guys, none of which seem to be looking for anything .. serious. This has been making me feel .. quite sad/frustrated because I am tired of seeing a guy for 3 - 5 dates for him to just say "Sorry but I just want to have fun, I am not looking for anything serious".
My best mates:
One just got married and is 24.
One got a mortgage and moved into a new house with her boyfriend.
One has gotten a flat with her daughter.
One in a relationship thats been going strong for 5 years +.
Me on the other hand?
Has a 45 year old man, who has just declared that he has fallen in love with me. He is a work colleague. We are very close friends. What I noticed about him is that he treats me like a princess. He calls me every single day and is an absolute man of his word.
However, he is divorced, has a son who is 20 years old a previous marriage of 14 years. He is currently still living with his ex girlfriend which he says is a "companion". I understand that he tells me they have not been intimate in years but it makes me somewhat uncomfortable that he is still living with her and every time he calls me and she enters the room he gets edgy or high strung.
It is like he is scared of her.
But if you guys are just companions, why would she care about what you do and your whereabouts??
I just feel like the man I want is not coming in the right package. I mean he says and does all the right things, he even said he is selling the house he stays in with his ex and part ways with her.. but I feel like something is not adding up.
Would you wait for a lease to be up before leaving a relationship? She is still a big part of his life. I am not even sure he has ever been single.
Things are happening in a strange way for me...
I just want to have a normal love life with a man my age or a little older.
I just seem to attract .. men who just want to have sex or are older, divorced etc.
This bothers me as I dont feel like I am living life like a normal 26 year old.
Guys, HONEST AND SINCERE advice only as I do like this man, but I am not sure if I am doing myself a disservice. Because I am worried I wont find the right guy.
Peace and Love,
Nic