Hi
Basically, my parents arent happy with my uni choice as its roughly 4 hours away (3 hours on the train) and they keep discouraging me from going there when in all honesty, it just makes me want to go to the uni even more.
Me and my parents get on very well, they hardly ever punish me and my sisters always get jelous at the amount of attention i got when i was a kid as I am the youngest. I think my parents still see me as a kid as I dont really go out.
Also I dont think they see me as independent as my parents got my sisters to do most of the chores as I'm "the boy". Tbh i find that quite annoying as I feel I should have done at least some housework and its kinda sexist that they think only girls should do housework but I digress.
I think there fine with idea of me moving away but they want me to go to a university which is closer but the thing is, the universities that are closer to me are good but there not as good as the uni that's far away. Also I've been there and I liked the university and I thought it was a nice place. However they just completely disregard it and say "we'll see when the time comes" or "what if you do better, you could go to a closer university". I have given them a list of reasons and they still wont accept that I want to go to this university.
Its not like I'll completely cut them out, I'll probably still ring my Mom fairly often and I've got unlimited minutes to Virgin mobiles so I wont have a problem with not having enough minutes etc.
Sorry if this seems a bit disjointed but I tried to include everything to give an idea of what the situation is. Oh I almost forgot one crucial thing that will explain a lot; I'm Indian <dramatic Indian serial music>dura drua durra </>.