Boyfriend doesn't care Watch
play more hard to get, he'll soon change tune. Act like you're not too bothered and that u'r having fun at home but subtly do it.
Don't tolerate such behaviour from him. I tolerated it from a good friend of mine for 3 years and now I've finally snapped and I don't consider him my friend anymore. It HURT - and he was just a good friend. I don't wanna imagine the bitterness and anger and hurt you'd feel if you wait for yourself to snap. Talk to him - he refuses to talk? - Cut him off. I say - dump him. You deserve better.
I said another girl really liked me thinking it would get her thinking "ooh... maybe I should stop acting weird" but she didn't change at all.
I finished with her last Friday.
It sounds to me like this guy is totally taking you for granted and he obviously doesn't see this relationship as worthy of the work needed to make it work.
If this is a bad as you say it is, and I was in the same situation, I would make a clean break. No more lies and excuses.
I did this very recently with a friend who was being very evasive with me and, in alot of ways the situation was the same (except that we were friends) until I got fed up with it all. I waited until I was rational and sent her an email (email is sometimes the best way to go because it is uninterrupted) explaining that I was not going to wait around for her.
It was polite and fair and it worked.
if he doesn't seem bothered when you talk to him about then i think you have to think seriously about where your relationship is going
hmmm....i can do playing hard to get when i dont care very much but ive been with him now for almost a year and i do obviously care a hell of a lot for him but I suppose if i want to try and improve things i'll try
it might be just a phase, but hopefully as long as you make him realise how much youre worth, he'll soon change tune and make an effort with you!
Keep trying to talk to him but if you have to spell it out, his behaviour is worrying you, and you have a right to know where you stand. If he does finish things yes it will hurt, but at least you will know how he feels and where you stand.
No longer will you be stuck in limbo but you'll both be free to move on. i hope things can work out for you one way or another.
Be honest and begin from where the problems started. Make sure you seem understanding but firm...Because you don't want him to chicken out of telling you the truth (if there is anything).
Tell him how things work for you and give him a deadline.
If it continues, you should break it off. It's hard, probably because there's so much both of you have shared over the past year.
Tbh, you'll get over him if he keeps acting like an ass.
The play hard to get advice - I totally disagree. It's simply damage your relationship further. There's no purpose to the game and it'll only risk him moving further away.