GIRLS (and guys), what would you think of a guy who. . .

was 20 years old

had never kissed a girl before

wasn't waiting for the right girl or special moment

wasn't ugly (i know this is hard to judge properly). probably a bit above average looks

wasn't too fat or too skinny. works out and has a decent enough body. better than average but not amazing


HONEST OPINIONS PLEASE. don't sugarcoat the truth. tell me what you would honestly think.

Nothing wrong with it at all.. BUT I would be a bit hesitant before getting involved because I wouldnt want too much pressure to 'live up to expectations'

I'd say he needs to get out there more.

Confidence problems maybe?

I would take him out and be his pimp for the night :P

Nothing. You're just another 20 year old guy. There is no age criteria for when an individual should have kissed by or had a relationship.

it's not a big deal in the slightest?

was 20 years old

had never kissed a girl before

wasn't waiting for the right girl or special moment

wasn't ugly (i know this is hard to judge properly). probably a bit above average looks

wasn't too fat or too skinny. works out and has a decent enough body. better than average but not amazing


HONEST OPINIONS PLEASE. don't sugarcoat the truth. tell me what you would honestly think.

Lets take the OP's question a bit further:

Girls, what would you think of a guy who has never kissed a girl, dated, asked a girl out, nothing but was:
- 22 years old
- Had a grad job at one of the world's leading financial services firms
- Quite muscular
- Relatively intelligent (got the highest score in my school's IQ test of sorts out of around 70 people)
- Tall but not too tall
- Somewhat average looking face i.e no pretty boy but not ugly either, just normal.
- Not a quiet wimp, but the guy who always takes the lead in group projects.

Lets take the OP's question a bit further:

Girls, what would you think of a guy who has never kissed a girl, dated, asked a girl out, nothing but was:
- 22 years old
- Had a grad job at one of the world's leading financial services firms
- Quite muscular
- Relatively intelligent (got the highest score in my school's IQ test of sorts out of around 70 people)
- Tall but not too tall
- Somewhat average looking face i.e no pretty boy but not ugly either, just normal.
- Not a quiet wimp, but the guy who always takes the lead in group projects.

Too good to be true?

Lets take the OP's question a bit further:

Girls, what would you think of a guy who has never kissed a girl, dated, asked a girl out, nothing but was:
- 22 years old
- Had a grad job at one of the world's leading financial services firms
- Quite muscular
- Relatively intelligent (got the highest score in my school's IQ test of sorts out of around 70 people)
- Tall but not too tall
- Somewhat average looking face i.e no pretty boy but not ugly either, just normal.
- Not a quiet wimp, but the guy who always takes the lead in group projects.

Why thank you, it is so kind of you to say that. I guess I don't have much of an excuse for being such a virgin. Well except for the fact that I never go out and hence don't really get any exposure to females and as such I can't really expect experience to pop up out of thin air.

I know a really, really good looking guy, incredibly popular, almost every girl we both know has at some point found him attractive/ crushed on him and he's comfortable and good friends with a lot of them. He's intelligent - goes to the top uni for the course he does.

But he's just really chilled about life, and never been crazy to get a girl. At 19 he's finally found himself falling for this girl. She's gonna be his first kiss...

Before I knew him I probably would find the idea weird, but there are guys (and girls) out there who just haven't felt the need to pursue anything. If anything it makes girls he knows think he's hotter, ( ) plus it makes me respect him more for holding out for what he sees as worth it and the real deal. I'm not saying he'll marry this girl or w/e but he didn't go round being intimate with girls when he wasn't serious.

Lol it's not a big deal being a virgin. The only reason why anyone ever thinks it's a big deal is cos of peer pressure. Loads of girls find it really cute/hot/turn on that a guys a virgin... IMO. Be proud of it - don't make it into a big deal; if you don't see it as an issue, Noone else will

EDIT: don't listen to other people who are all "you're probably not as
Hot or confident etc.." - I know some really really good
Looking confident
Guys who are still virgins purely because it's not a big deal to them. Not being a virgin doesn't make
You hot/confident. There are loads of
Ugly non virgins out there... xx

no they dont. every single girl who has spoken about sex around me has said they are not keen on virgins. why do people on tsr make out its fine to be a virgin at my age when everyone out there in the real world thinks otherwise?

Lets take the OP's question a bit further:

Girls, what would you think of a guy who has never kissed a girl, dated, asked a girl out, nothing but was:
- 22 years old
- Had a grad job at one of the world's leading financial services firms
- Quite muscular
- Relatively intelligent (got the highest score in my school's IQ test of sorts out of around 70 people)
- Tall but not too tall
- Somewhat average looking face i.e no pretty boy but not ugly either, just normal.
- Not a quiet wimp, but the guy who always takes the lead in group projects.

I'd think him either asexual, gay (but you'd think he'd be interested in getting a guy), or that he has a really low libido or something.

i am not friends with many girls and the ones who i am friends with have boyfriends (literally all of them have boyfriends).

i have no idea if girls have fancied me in the past. a few might have done at parties or in clubs but i think they were teasing.

i dont try and pursue anything but that doesnt mean i dont want to kiss or have sex. far from it. i would love to kiss a girl or have sex with one.

no they dont. every single girl who has spoken about sex around me has said they are not keen on virgins. why do people on tsr make out its fine to be a virgin at my age when everyone out there in the real world thinks otherwise?