damn, male friend tried it on with me

hey you lot i am very drunk so cut me some slack here. was just trying to help now i am crying

Reply 21

OP

don't cry! your advice was very useful and i perhaps will, rather should have, use(d) it. thank you.

Reply 22

Crimson Black

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chester_lass83

hey you lot i am very drunk so cut me some slack here. was just trying to help now i am crying

This lady deserves rep for such a simple yet deep statement. :smile:

Reply 23

freshestkid

1

chester_lass83

hey you lot i am very drunk so cut me some slack here. was just trying to help now i am crying

Get to bed eh, before you start telling us how life is a ghoulash :biggrin:

. Sweet dreams rainyface

Reply 24

Gancor

I was distracted reading this thread not by your situation, but by your Greg Scott avatar. YAKKABAKKAKAZ!

Reply 25

hey be nice, i have just got home from a twelve hr shift in a pub on easter sun to an empty house I deserve to be drunk. in fact i feel i have earnt it.

Reply 26

OP

there was alcohol involved, so the degree to which i should be forgiving is questionable. and there's also a paradox, if someone's a really good mate, then you could/should be more forgiving..?

Reply 27

gyrase

3

Just use and abuse your friends.

In your case, your friend abused you.

Reply 28

princessa

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Dschingis

This lady deserves rep for such a simple yet deep statement. :smile:

Done!

chester girl dont cry, it was a beautiful moment, be happy that you have the grace to lighten up sad people's lives. and the rest of the post made sense. night and happy easter :wink:

Reply 29

afraid i dont agree with the last post (yes I know I am drunk) however, he is your mate and you should take this as a lesson be carefull about signals you may be sending out and be forgiving, i mean no matter what mates are always there for you and to be fair you have to attend lectures with him for a while yet so you do not want to end up screwing up what sounds like a good friendship for one drunken nights mistake on his part

Reply 30

OP

but i really don't think i was giving out any signals. i wouldn't know how the hell to give out signals to a guy, and i'm far from an expert in giving them out to girls.

Reply 31

thing is we all do it subconsciensly (or however that is spelt) and maybe you gave him signals. I am a barmaid its my job to flirt but my man hates it I do it now without thinking all i am saying is be carefull. but you should be flattered he fancies you as well as saying you aint interested (unless you are) in a nice way. but the main thing is you have to see him day in day out so forgiveness is a must

Reply 32

dead man's shoes

chester_lass83

A friendship is a steak.

aint that just the truth

Reply 33

already explained i am drunk

Reply 34

dede

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Aetheria

"look mate, I'm not rejecting you, I'm just not gay, sorry"

I'd think that's a rejection ... right? You're not attracted to him, you say no. Substitute him for her and it would definitely be a rejection. But is it not a rejection because he's gay? Hmm. Interesting thought.

Reply 35

dead man's shoes

you know what they say, when the steaks are high.....

(was that ever on catchphrase? should've been..)

Reply 36

dede

11

Ahahaha, just looked at silence's profile and noticed the slightly vague description under orientation. Perhaps this is part of the mixed signals :p:

Reply 37

see thats what the sad drunk said now enogh with the steaks. i am sorry leave it alone i do talk some sense sober, i promise

Reply 38

OP