Cheated on my boyfriend. Has he over-reacted? Need advice

I just...

You're both as bad as each other. You've cheated on him more than once which is appalling and he's aggressive and violent which is equally as appalling.

Why did you think it was a good idea to move in with him? You've only been together for a few months and have been cheating on him throughout that time!

HES a prick?

What he did was out of order, but understandable. You're also a bit misguiding when you start by saying you just kissed this other guy, but then it turns out you've cheated on him several times already anyway...

Also, you don't love him - you've only been going out for two months and have managed to cheat on him more than once already?

He's supported me coming out to my parents. My parents aren't accepting of me being gay. And were being really controlling. So I ran away from home and moved in with him. It made sense.
I don't know why I cheated. It's my first ever relationship. I didn't know what was expected of me.

He's supported me coming out to my parents. My parents aren't accepting of me being gay. And were being really controlling. So I ran away from home and moved in with him. It made sense.
I don't know why I cheated. It's my first ever relationship. I didn't know what was expected of me.

I don't think his actions are justified but that doesn't mean you're not in the wrong. He's obviously going to be pretty angry at what you've done and you know you shouldn't have done it. Although it doesn't warrant him saying he's going to turn up at your work and grabbing you by the throat - that's pretty bad.

It's probably best that you two go your separate ways.

Wait, so despite the fact he was your only lifeline and you needed him for reasons other than from the relationship you still cheated? Isn't that quite stupid? Looks like you'll be having to go back to your loving parents...

You didn't know what was exp... are you serious? You thought you could just get into a relationship and expect your boyfriend to be happy that you were banging other guys?

Quite a few of my gay friends are in open-relationships. I just thought it was normal. I got a bit bored at work, sexted a few guys. Can't see the big deal. It's my partner who I love. It's not like I've fallen for someone else and dumped him because of it.

You're both as bad as eachother. Yes, it's not acceptable for him to physically harm you or for him to throw you out of the house in your underwear or threaten you, but you've been sexting other guys and have cheated on him multiple times! Grow up, for goodness sake. It's clearly not going to work out between you, it sounds like there's just been too much water under the bridge and he's too cut up about it to recover. Please just try and have a shred of respect for the people who you date, I'd probably have gone a bit wacko if I'd found out my partner had been behaving like you too.

I think it's clear this relationship you two had is very volatile. And I'm sure others would agree in saying that ending it would be the best thing.

You did cheat on him which is unforgivable in my eyes. From the thread title I was sure I would go in and post how nope, you cheated on someone the reaction is therefore justified.

But what he did to you is way too over the top in my opinion. He assaulted you, and had threatened you. I'd get on the phone to the police if that happened. And definitely do not give things another chance, as whats to say this can't happen again in the future? His actions could be a lot worse.

Should we meet up one last time to talk things over? We haven't talked about it face to face. He just decided to go psycho and throw me out.

Let me just make that clearer for you.