Is it weird to want to be a girl?

i) men will open doors for you

ii) swooning is not frowned upon

iii) eyebrows are not raised if you spend ages in the restroom with a companion of the same sex

Indeed

I don't think it's that weird, I used to really want to be a boy because they lead such easier lives ...

A lot of men including myself often feel like many camp individuals are trying to hard to be like women, instead of embracing their sex or attempting to change it they are staying in a limbo that confuses us straight blokes. and makes us just think "if you're gunna act more girlier than most girls 24/7 then why not just get a sex change".

Ofc its ridiculous and you reserve the right to behave however you want as long as ur not hurting anybody, but that's how the majority of men feel about the cloudy area that is male femininity.

I disagree. I think that the pair of sex chromosomes in a person's cells dictate whether that person is male or female. I don't really acknowledge there being anything 'in between' just because a person 'feels' that they are something different to what their genome dictates. That's not being narrow minded, that's just facing the facts that we've observed and worked out so far. I believe God made man and he made woman. Regardless of whether there's thousands of people who feel that way, or whether there's only two, it means nothing to me, if I'm totally honest. Not that I have anything against transgender people.

Well I guess I see it a bit differently to you. To me it appears that a persons chromosomes dictate how a persons body develops. That is all they dictate, that is why we're all different, and we have feminine men, masculine females, gay people, bisexual people and transgender people. Chromosomes don't dictate how someone feels. If someone feels happier living their life as a different gender to what they were born, then I don't see a problem, I don't see why you would deny them that as their own reality.

Your god isn't real to me, he isn't something I believe in, but I don't march up to Christians and tell them that their god isn't real and they can't ever go to heaven coz it doesn't exist and they're wasting their time worshipping a man in the sky. I let them have their belief and worship in peace because I understand that it is real to them and they're happy living that way, and my opposing it isn't going to change their mind, it's just going to make their encounter with me negative and unpleasant. You identify as a Christian, they identify as transgender. Treat them the way you would like atheists to treat you.

Ok, so I don't feel like I am a woman. I'm male and identify as such.
But it's been bugging me that I keep thinking about being a girl, and I know I would prefer it to being a boy.

When I'm with my female friends I feel so much more myself. I am fairly girly, I suppose. I am content with being male, but I do think to myself that I'd prefer to be a girl.

Is it weird to think this?

btw I'm gay

I don't think it's strange at all. You might be gender fluid, gender doesn't have to be, and in fact doesn't always act as a fixed point. Your sex is what is down below, but your gender is another matter instead. Maybe you could find a dedicated forum for LGBT+ to discuss it better with others going through the same thing? Sometimes TSR isn't always forgiving of such topics or simplifies them.

Yeah that's a good idea, I'm not sure where's the best place to ask though

I don't think it's that weird, I used to really want to be a boy because they lead such easier lives ...