Best friend didn't mention me in his 21st speech

He probably thought that you know how much you mean to him?

Try not to beat yourself (or him, or anything else, for that matter) up about it until you're feeling yourself again. People make some stupid decisions when drunk, and when grumpy and hungover.

I'll be honest ever since I started being Mr Paranoid I didn't know how much he was just hanging out with me out of pity or something. Also his parents are family friends, as in his mum and dad are really close to my dad. I don't know. I know he wants to stay in touch but whether he still considers me as good a friend as I do him, idk

Mm, talk to him?

Tempted to tonight but a) We're both wrecked from last night and only going because the gig'll be awesome and they won't change the day for us, b) don't want to make a meal out of it? I am terrible at blowing things out of proportion and getting the wrong end of the stick :P

You make these type of threads everyday! see you GP lol

im a big fan of your work man

I can only imagine how you'll feel if he gets engaged and he asks someone else to be his best man. It's just another of those awkward moments in life man, don't let it get to you.

Give him a slap if it meant that much.

As title says, best bud's 21st birthday party last night, and he gave the obligatory speech.
He said this quite touching stuff bout never having many friends as a kid (although hey dude I've been hanging out with you since Year 6?) and that all changing now, hence the great turn-out, 'I love you all!' shouts etc. :P
Except he was a little more explicit and he thanked all his old high school friends for turning up, his uni mates who could (and sorry to those who couldn't), his family and his new friends. I wasn't on the list.

I admit I could be overreacting being a bit hungover, but I am feeling a little rejected-especially because I got him 2 tickets for a stand-up gig tonight that cost a small fortune.
I should note the rest of the time he is a really good friend. In all honesty I don't know whether he sees me as his best friend anymore and he's nice to everyone, but he has stuck by me through some had times.
If your best friend did this would you be hurt or am I being pathetically oversensitive again?

Either talk to him about it or mtfu.
No doubt youre going to say its not that simple due to "x/y/z".
Honestly, I dont know if youre currently in therapy or not but you need to get a handle on all your issues before they destroy EVERYTHING. People on all your threads post some really sound advice on how to help yourself, how to build confidence (which has an impact on anxiety), how to try and reduce over thinking, how to work on insecurities....you should try them.
If you keep trying to find fault with things, thats all youre going to find. The guy is your friend-stop at that point, dont continue with "well he did this or didnt do this", it takes practice to notice youre doing it and even more to stop doing it/just ignore the thoughts but you are going to destroy every and all relationships if you keep reading too much into them.
If mindfulness is something youve never done, have a look at it. It's actually really good (some of it) for helping with overthinking, depression and anxiety and all the thoughts that go with it-you need to put the work in though or it wont work.