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Would you date someone who smoked cigarettes?

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Reply 20

RibenaRockstar

No. To me it says that you re not careful with money and that you don't value your health. Plus it stinks.

Reply 21

moonriver96

As along as he wasnt a chain smoker and only smoked occasionaly. Otherwise, no.

Reply 22

Swanbow

Yeah I wouldn't mind to be honest.

Reply 23

cambio wechsel

Original post by RibenaRockstar

To me it says that you re not careful with money and that you don't value your health.

it's good and bad news then?

Reply 24

RibenaRockstar

Original post by cambio wechsel

it's good and bad news then?

Hm? I would prefer to go out with someone who's good with cash and who has long-term ambitions for the future.
Also I have a really bad reaction to cigarette smoke (respiratory issues!)

If I were into casual sex then apart from the smell/smoke issue I wouldn't have a problem with smokers. But I don't really see the point of getting with someone unless you think you'll be with them for a sizeable period of time (a couple of months is long enough for someone's bad habits with cash/ lack of long-term ambition to rub off on you).

The reason I'm saying long-term ambition is that I mean a wish to have a long and fruitful life, and thus the work ethic/ dedication to make that happen. If you smoke you're shortening your own life.

Reply 25

cambio wechsel

Original post by RibenaRockstar

Hm? I would prefer to go out with someone who's good with cash and who has long-term ambitions for the future.

Ah, I would be frankly terrified of a woman for whom the way in which I spent my cash was a factor here. And that because it is my cash.

I'd write more, but you understand I'm jonesing for a fag.

Reply 26

RibenaRockstar

Original post by cambio wechsel

Ah, I would be frankly terrified of a woman for whom the way in which I spent my cash was a factor here. And that because it is my cash.

I'd write more, but you understand I'm jonesing for a fag.

It's not that it's spending it on something I don't approve of - it's that it's literally burning money. (And I've never seen a smoker smiling while smoking) I couldn't give a **** if a prospective partner spent a lot of money on a Star Wars habit, or on books, or football tickets, or anything like that. It's throwing money away on something that WILL kill you.

Edited to add: I mentioned before that I don't see the point in dating someone who couldn't be long term - if I'm going to live with someone and marry them, and have a joint bank account, they'd better be good with cash!

Reply 27

Reue

Original post by RibenaRockstar

No. To me it says that you re not careful with money and that you don't value your health. Plus it stinks.

This.

Reply 28

the bear

no it would not work out

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 29

b3kky

I wouldn't even consider it. And if my boyfriend ever develops a habit for smoking a substance of any sort I will tell him to choose me or the smoking.