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nice and sweet guys

Reply 40

Jimmy_everything

5

but when he turns out to be everything you ever wanted... you wont want him anymore.

Reply 41

dede

11

Ha! Careful, you almost sounded bitter there.

Reply 42

Rusty33

That's not bitterness, that's textbook.

Reply 43

Talon

18

You always hear girls taking about how they want a geniune nice guy, but my rant is this: Why do I never find these girls??????

Lol.

Reply 44

matt@internet

12

Anonymous

what do you girls think of nice and sweet guys?

That they're nice and sweet?

Reply 45

Squelchy

Talon

You always hear girls taking about how they want a geniune nice guy, but my rant is this: Why do I never find these girls??????

Lol.

You probably know plenty of these girls, but you're too timid to approach them with confidence and ask them out.

That would be my guess, at any rate.

Reply 46

Jenii

15

minimo

Just my sort, espesh if they are a leetle geeky too. Oh and rosy-cheeked. :love:

Mine too!

Reply 47

G4ry

1

Squelchy

You probably know plenty of these girls, but you're too timid to approach them with confidence and ask them out.

That would be my guess, at any rate.

Sometimes you talk a lot of sense (actually most of what i've seen).

But it's true, you can still be a nice guy and state your intentions with girls. One can be as much of a nice guy as possible, but if they wait around for a girl to approach them; it just won't happen. Then that leads to sentiments that girls don't want nice guys. Just got to stick your foot in the deep end and then after you can be a nice guy.

Reply 48

person 34

9

Carl1982

I think alot of girls would crave a geniune nice guy.

oooooooo no it's all about the bad boys. See that's attractive. I don't want some guy licking the ground I walk on, smiling at me continuosly and spending all his money on me, and then saying "oh, it's ok I'm broke....because I love you." It takes away anything special. It's nice to sometimes work for what you want.

I am not saying, that nice and sweet guys, aren't cool sometimes. I just couldn't marry one, that's all.

Reply 49

dede

11

Rusty33

That's not bitterness, that's textbook.

Nope, it was bitterness ... Sucks for him that something like this happened to him though. Sorry Jimmy, she probably wasn't worth it, hey!

Reply 50

General Mullet

Do genuinely nice guys exist? the ones who worship girls, buy them stuff all the time and proclaim their love only do it out of desperation - not to be genuinely nice. I'd like to think I'm a good guy but to be nice all the time is impossible.

Reply 51

Squelchy

General Mullet

Do genuinely nice guys exist? the ones who worship girls, buy them stuff all the time and proclaim their love only do it out of desperation - not to be genuinely nice. I'd like to think I'm a good guy but to be nice all the time is impossible.

It's funny how when you ask any guy, he says "I'm a nice guy!"

It's not as if it's a dichotomy of bad boys and nice guys. It's not black and white, it's a scale, and most people are grey. There's a lot of guys out there who are nice, considerate people, yet have the capacity to be absolute arseholes under the right circumstances.

I would consider myself to be one of those guys. I try to be decent to other people and treat people with respect, and I definitely have no problem showing affection to women, but sometimes I'm a bit too quick to snap at people, sometimes I overreact and am unnecessarily harsh, and sometimes I'm just plain selfish.

I imagine the majority of guys are not unlike me.

Reply 52

MagicNMedicine

20

good post squelchy

I'm also suspicious of any male who self titles himself a "nice guy", normally means there's some deceit underneath it

personally I would rather men tried to be "good men" than "nice men", nice sounds a bit wimpy and subservient....good men = strong men with ethics, morals, integrity. Thats what you want if you're a woman, or what you want to be if you're a man.

Reply 53

Hanski

1

Rusty33

Girls don't like callous guys, but what they don't realize is that they are the ones who make us this way.

You say girls make men that way. Not every lass is like that though. I realise life experience can make people some what cynical towards future partners, but in an ideal world everyone should be given an equal chance!
It's a viscious circle as the innocent lass or lad that gets into a relationship with these callous people, will get hurt, which breeds yet more people who think, "all lasses/lads are the same!"

...my post didn't really go anywhere... but hey, that's life!

Reply 54

minimo

15

MagicNMedicine

good post squelchy

I'm also suspicious of any male who self titles himself a "nice guy", normally means there's some deceit underneath it

personally I would rather men tried to be "good men" than "nice men", nice sounds a bit wimpy and subservient....good men = strong men with ethics, morals, integrity. Thats what you want if you're a woman, or what you want to be if you're a man.

Concur wholeheartedly. I tend to use 'nice' as a synonym for 'sweet' - and that's a plus.

Reply 55

Jimmy_everything

5

haha it was bitterness, but also realism.

General Mullet

Do genuinely nice guys exist? the ones who worship girls, buy them stuff all the time and proclaim their love only do it out of desperation - not to be genuinely nice. I'd like to think I'm a good guy but to be nice all the time is impossible.

its not desperation. being in (the big L word) you do anything and everything for that person. although it usually/always involved one being in it more than another- which will end in the former suffocating the latter.

people change.

nice guys exist. but its not what women want- i really believe this. girls have been socialised into thinking guys are moody, like to fight and treat women as 2nd class- and satisfaction comes out of fulfilling those roles, thats my theory.

thats my nice theory, my not-so-nice theory is that all women are manipulating soul destroying monsters who care only about their accumulation of waelth and commodities.

:biggrin:

im waiting for someone to change my mind.

Reply 56

username81886

1

Squelchy

Same (although nice girls rather than nice guys).

I've always wanted to like those girls who are basically like bubblegum, always sweet and bubbly, but I just can't handle it. I find the passion comes from a little bit of friction. A woman with her own mind who will tell me to shut up when I need telling, who will call me a **** when I'm acting one, and who isn't shy about saying why she disagrees with me when I say something she does disagree with, is much, much more attractive than a yes woman.

The idea of nice guys always seems good and they are better for relationships, but I hate the ones that just do what ever you say. Give me someone that's going to argue about what you're going to watch on tv or who's going to cook anyday.

Reply 57

AstraeaBeauty

1

nice and sweet guys are the best! i understand the initial attraction of the "bad boy" but after sampling both hehe...I can say that I prefer the nice and sweet much more...plus its been my experience that they treat you a little better

nice and sweet guys

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