Thread didn't post properly, came up with and error when I posted it and then only half of it posted. Here's what I was supposed to write:
A bit of a strange one. I went backpacking around SE Asia for 6 months, ended up spending 3 months (December 2013 - March 2014) of that in Vietnam. Met a local girl, we became really close. We met up almost every day for the 3 months I was there. When I went back to England, we talked everyday on Facebook and Skype. On the weekend, sometimes we would chat up to 8 hours without even realising it. Eventually, after 6 months of being best friends, we admitted out feelings for each other. She hinted about a relationship. Now I should say, I'm very cautious, it's just my personality. I like to take relationships SLOW. I hate to rush things. I liked this girl so so much but it would be a LDR so I needed time to let it sink in. Anyway a month later I asker her out, 7 months after first meeting her.
I came back to Vietnam in November 2014 to stay here for 5 months. After the first 2 months I lived in a rented apartment, in the third and forth month (It's the forth month now, I will leave in 1 month) I lived at her house.
The problem I have, she wants to come to England and live with me and start university in September 2015. I told her it's too soon, I just want to take things slowly. Her parents are going to give her money to study abroad, but it's just enough to pay for the university fees, not pay for rent, that's why she wants to stay at my house.
Although we've talked everyday for 1 year and 3 months and I love her very much, I feel like her coming to England is too big of a step, too soon. It's obviously a massive commitment for me and I'm not sure I'm ready. I'm not even sure she's ready. She isn't very independent and has been brought up very sheltered and I know she will miss her parents like crazy, but am I just being selfish?
Just want opinions from 'the outside' really.