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why are so many attractive girls so boring?

I have been quite a few attractive women, I like to be with a girl who I can hang out with do stuff with even just normal like watching films and TV together, going places together.

Even having good conversation with a good looking girl is hard work because they never seem interested in anything other than themselves, it gets so boring when all they want to do is spend all focusing on make-up and silly things.

So many girls I've met always have a massive guard acting like they better than anyone else thinking just i'm talking to them thinking I'm trying to have sex with them, sometimes yeah but I want to know her first but doesn't let me with all this ego and need to pose for photos for facebook 24/7.

Just because you're good looking is no need to treat men like dicks, take it as a compliment if a man likes you. Men owe you nothing same as you owe them nothing, equal.

Why can't they just be more down to earth. Its way more attractive if a girl doesn't have attitude and isn't afraid to laugh at herself and join in what men do.

So many times I'm sat chatting to a good looking when i'm out because they spend all day front of the mirror there is nothing to talk about. just fed of it.

I know there are girls out there not like what I said so I salute you if you are.

Reply 1

theo1jinx

16

I've been blown away by the amount of hot girls who lack recreational hobbies and stuff. What do they do with their lives besides text, gossip, go shopping for clothes, watch TV shows. ???

Original post by Anonymous

Even having good conversation with a good looking girl is hard work because they never seem interested in anything other than themselves, i

I agree with that. But again it's not all of them like this. There are plenty of girls with both good looks and brains out there :tongue:

Reply 2

shawn_o1

21

so don't go for the most attractive.
go for the "not as attractive as others but is fun to be around and makes others happy"

Reply 3

FroKane

6

It comes down to necessity, a lot of attractive girls dont develop interesting or desirable social skills because they dont need to. Good looking people (men and women) are treated nicer by people straight off the bat. If they decide to be funny/cool/social its as a bonus. However more homely or average people have to have personality, otherwise nobody will notice them or not even consider them.

Reply 4

xoflower

14

Original post by theo1jinx

I've been blown away by the amount of hot girls who lack recreational hobbies and stuff. What do they do with their lives besides text, gossip, go shopping for clothes, watch TV shows. ???

I agree with that. But again it's not all of them like this. There are plenty of girls with both good looks and brains out there :tongue:

texting, gossip etc are there hobbies. Just because you find that boring does not mean that they should.

Reply 5

james1801

2

Because they're inferior simpletons, with the most basic disposition of any human

Reply 6

lllllllllll

13

I'm okay-ish looking but I think the only reason a lot of people find me boring is because all I ever do is maths and program computers

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 7

NeverTooLatte

9

I guess because they rely on their looks more than personality to get them through most things. Like you say, not all good-looking people are like this. I'm sure we've all met good-looking people with great personalities and not so good-looking people with rubbish personalities.

"Just because you're good looking is no need to treat men like dicks, take it as a compliment if a man likes you. Men owe you nothing same as you owe them nothing, equal." I agree but maybe the ones that have treated others this way have been treated unfairly by other men. I mean, if she was really gorgeous then it's likely she's going to be wary of guys who just want her for her looks. I dunno, but it just seems sometimes that conventionally looking people get hounded on all the time and I feel sometimes quite lucky to be average and get on with daily life.

I guess it depends on the person. For me, I'm not too fussed about looks, so would take someone that you described over looks any day. Besides, sometimes you find the personality makes them look better looking to you in the end anyway. Maybe you feel she needs to have the full package - the looks, the personality, the drive, the ambition etc...in that case, maybe you need to compromise more.

These are just some suggestions that might apply to some individuals. Overall, I think your post is the right way to go about things and think things like that :smile:

xx

Reply 8

Dee .. ♥

6

Original post by theo1jinx

I've been blown away by the amount of hot girls who lack recreational hobbies and stuff. What do they do with their lives besides text, gossip, go shopping for clothes, watch TV shows. ???

I agree with that. But again it's not all of them like this. There are plenty of girls with both good looks and brains out there :tongue:

I actually hate shopping.
I don't watch TV.
I have like 3 girl friends.
I don't have credit.

Lol, them gal's are boring.

I'M PROBABLY THE FUNNEST PERSON ALIVE.

:woo:

Urban Dictionary says everyone need's a Dina :smile:

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 9

Khadijah489

9

Damn hate girls like that, the girls in my class are all interested in make up, guys and they act like the worlds gonna end if they end up breaking a nail or messing up their hair, honestly lol its pretty funny, I like to socialise and meet new people and I'm pretty crazy so I mess about a lot and goof around, read books, draw, go out, and I love travelling, so yeah its better than sitting at looking in the mirror all the time. I wear make up and I'm a girly girl as well but I'm not one of those boring types that your on about haha :smile:

Takes time to find a girl thats really adventurous and likes exploring :tongue:

Reply 10

Jonesy57

Lol maybe they arent boring but they get approached by a lot of people so they dont have time for everyone, just a thought.

Reply 11

grapes12

8

Not all girls are like this. I know some girls that are absolutely stunning but have the brains too and they appear to be disinterested in guys because they get played around a lot. People seem to think that the more attractive a girl is, the more stupid she is. Also, more guys become interested in pursuing her and a lot of them have intentions of only sex, so when she experiences all the bad stuff shes not going to want to try with a new guy who genuinely has her as a person as his interest rather than just sex and games.
But then again some girls can be attractive and be so stuck up. Again, some girls I know barely have half a brain cell in their heads but they've got looks to kill for.

Reply 12

theo1jinx

16

Omg, dream girl or what? :biggrin:

Original post by Dee .. ♥

I actually hate shopping.
I don't watch TV.
I have like 3 girl friends.
I don't have credit.

Lol, them gal's are boring.

I'M PROBABLY THE FUNNEST PERSON ALIVE.

:woo:

Urban Dictionary says everyone need's a Dina :smile:

Reply 13

JSPalmer

4

These kind of girls don't need to be interesting as FroKane said. They have the natural social status that comes with being what society perceives as being 'attractive' and often have very narcissistic personalities which in their minds means that they don't need to better themselves and prevents them from learning more about the world and following up on actual interests.

Reply 14

lllllllllll

13

Original post by grapes12

Not all girls are like this. I know some girls that are absolutely stunning but have the brains too and they appear to be disinterested in guys because they get played around a lot. People seem to think that the more attractive a girl is, the more stupid she is. Also, more guys become interested in pursuing her and a lot of them have intentions of only sex, so when she experiences all the bad stuff shes not going to want to try with a new guy who genuinely has her as a person as his interest rather than just sex and games.
But then again some girls can be attractive and be so stuck up. Again, some girls I know barely have half a brain cell in their heads but they've got looks to kill for.

Yeah, usually it's the girls who start off ugly and then become pretty who are really nice.

I noticed that if you start off pretty you grow up with the expectation that everyone should treat you like a princess and so you would expect to set your standards really high. So when a normal guy tries to hit on someone like that, she would try to shrug him off by acting all boring and disinterested.

When I hit on girls like that I break rapport just as the conversation gets good so she'll want more of me and see me more positively with each guy she subsequently turns down.

Reply 15

karl pilkington

20

this isn't just true for women also men but to a lesser extent as men aren't judged as much by the way they look. If you are good looking people tend to like you more readily so it is easier for you to have no personality and not develop one

Reply 16

Anonymous #2

Original post by theo1jinx

Omg, dream girl or what? :biggrin:

Or what.

Reply 17

charlierayvin

1

When i go to the club, a hot girl will stand on the same spot till the club closes. Not one single guy dears to approach her.

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

These women are on social media, crave off attention and have dozens of beta-orbiter men trying to get their attention. Pathetic really.

Reply 19

Anonymous #3

Though with the advent of Tinder, most women get so much attention from men, that even socially less conventionally 'pretty' women have dozens of men after them, and so egos are through the roof.

why are so many attractive girls so boring?

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