Is this cheating?

I would struggle to be friends with someone like that, to be honest. What she would do behind her boyfriend's back, she would do to you OP. Just a fair warning.

I used to know of this girl when she was a teenager (she's now an adult). She got engaged to a good young man who survived cancer. During their engagement, she was cheating on him with someone from another city this year (whom she lives with now). I knew she would do this because she had manipulated her ex bfs in the same way.

I thought it was pretty ****ing ****ty of her to do, especially when her ex fiance had another cancer scare again. So I contacted her ex myself to explain what she's really like and to see a sex health clinic. To be fair, she's a troubled girl with a troubled childhood (I'm aware of her past); but I don't condone her actions, and I wouldn't want to be associated with a fickle and dishonest man or woman. Ever.

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Reply 41

username47781

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It's not very appropriate behaviour for someone in a relationship.

Reply 42

Hayley Williams

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Original post by picklescamp

Last night my friend and I went out. Her boyfriend is at a festival right now and she's terrified he's going to cheat on her.
Anyway I leave for one minute and get back to see her straddling this guy, grinding against him (fully clothed to clarity) and playing with his hair and whispering in his ear. She told me today she loved it having him right around her little finger and having such control. But when I suggested that she had cheated she said 'technically I didn't- I didn't kiss him'. Thoughts? Is this cheating? Personally I think it is- had her boyfriend seen it he'd have been heartbroken. She also gave him her number and said they could talk as friends which to me seems unlikely.

Something to mention to her boyfriend, YES!

Reply 43

King Mal

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Original post by picklescamp

Last night my friend and I went out. Her boyfriend is at a festival right now and she's terrified he's going to cheat on her.
Anyway I leave for one minute and get back to see her straddling this guy, grinding against him (fully clothed to clarity) and playing with his hair and whispering in his ear. She told me today she loved it having him right around her little finger and having such control. But when I suggested that she had cheated she said 'technically I didn't- I didn't kiss him'. Thoughts? Is this cheating? Personally I think it is- had her boyfriend seen it he'd have been heartbroken. She also gave him her number and said they could talk as friends which to me seems unlikely.

uh yea she's being slaggy but that's not cheating.
I have girls sit on me and dance with me and my girl knows I'd call her a fool if she says it's cheating.

Reply 44

trustmeimlying1

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Original post by babyshawte

Doesn't matter if she didn't kiss him.

She cheated.

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the frog cheated.

Faugh that bitch!

Okay if you think its not cheating then allow your sister or girlfriend to grind on me.
She'll love it!

Reply 47

username1229433

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Original post by trustmeimlying1

the frog cheated.

100%

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Reply 48

elloluvswagwan

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Original post by picklescamp

Last night my friend and I went out. Her boyfriend is at a festival right now and she's terrified he's going to cheat on her.
Anyway I leave for one minute and get back to see her straddling this guy, grinding against him (fully clothed to clarity) and playing with his hair and whispering in his ear. She told me today she loved it having him right around her little finger and having such control. But when I suggested that she had cheated she said 'technically I didn't- I didn't kiss him'. Thoughts? Is this cheating? Personally I think it is- had her boyfriend seen it he'd have been heartbroken. She also gave him her number and said they could talk as friends which to me seems unlikely.