Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

Should I get in contact with my ex? Watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    We broke up a year ago and I'm totally over him, the thought of being with him is really offputting. It was kind of a mutual break up but it was his fault. He text me a couple of months ago because we bumped into eachother and I replied but in the end stopped because I couldn't really be bothered. Recently I feel like I don't want things to end that way and I would quite like to apologise for not replying and explain why I didn't - but I definitely am not trying to open the door on the relationship again (thats kind of why I stopped replying because I felt like that's what he wanted).

    We did have a really good relationship while it lasted and at the time he was important to me and I feel uncomfortable with that being our last contact. I don't have him on social media either.

    Would it be weird to contact him out of the blue? Would it look like I wanted something from him romantically?
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    Bump
    • Political Ambassador
    Offline

    18
    For how long were you together?

    Sometimes keeping your ex your friend doesn't work, but sometimes it does. You would have to try to figure that out. Contact him and apologize for not replying and ask him if you can still be friends.
    Offline

    17
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    We broke up a year ago and I'm totally over him, the thought of being with him is really offputting. It was kind of a mutual break up but it was his fault. He text me a couple of months ago because we bumped into eachother and I replied but in the end stopped because I couldn't really be bothered. Recently I feel like I don't want things to end that way and I would quite like to apologise for not replying and explain why I didn't - but I definitely am not trying to open the door on the relationship again (thats kind of why I stopped replying because I felt like that's what he wanted).

    We did have a really good relationship while it lasted and at the time he was important to me and I feel uncomfortable with that being our last contact. I don't have him on social media either.

    Would it be weird to contact him out of the blue? Would it look like I wanted something from him romantically?
    Its been a couple of months ago i would just move on if i were you. He probably has moved on now and thinks you have too so leave him be especially as you have no feelings anymore.
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: January 10, 2017
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    What newspaper do you read/prefer?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.