Please help, Muslims will probably only understand

What is it with non-muslims and misguiding others?

Damn I forgot that Heaven thing - soz bro

I'm sure that praying for a rotting corpse does a lot of good things for your mental health though

What do you mean?

Please dont get ahead of yourself.

So brave from you to hide behind the anonymous function to insult an user...

Youre misguiding OP based upon what you want her to do. Which in this case leave her religion as for you its not satisfying so you want others to suffer with you.

Youre misguiding OP based upon what you want her to do. Which in this case leave her religion as for you its not satisfying so you want others to suffer with you.

So brave of you to be biased.

It can sink in as much as it like, your authoritatively written storybook isn't what's going to make me feel regrets at 12 am. If it does that to the OP, then it's her loss.

(Btw considering that mankind is majority non-Muslim, I doubt that it's in a position to curse anyone)

Because you have only seen that user on this thread the rest of us actually know for a fact he is a TROLL

So brave of you to be biased.

Youre misguiding OP based upon what you want her to do. Which in this case leave her religion as for you its not satisfying so you want others to suffer with you.

What do you want us to say ? You said you dont wear a hijab and dont feel Muslim but only want to marry a Muslim. What do you want random people on the internet to do about your conflicting lack of self worth,if your issues run so deep go see a therapist and work out the problems causing you to feel this way.

I can't believe I i revealed info about being abused for 20 odd years, having no family, very few friends, suffering anxiety and people are using this thread to prove their own points?? I've come here to ask for HELP and everytime I see a response I get hopeful that someone has something helpful to offer me, but no. I get you're self centered and want to get your own point across regardless of another human being's situation, but PLEASE can you target a thread from someone who perhaps has had it a little easier than I have?? FFS

i never said i dont feel muslim

i didnt want responses from random people actually, but from other muslims

and a therapist is going to know **** all about my situation, which is, again, why ive asked for replies from other muslims.

thanks.

Hi, sorry for the long back story.

I come from a household of an extremely abusive mother and a father who never did anything to stop it.

A couple years ago, I managed to transfer university and move out, but my family would force me to regularly visit. Just before this, I met my non-Muslim boyfriend on a dating site, who lives in London. I am not from London nor do I go to university there. At this time I was (of course) in a bad place and, although I believed in Allah, I did not really care for religion.

Since being away from the abuse I've found more of a place for Allah in my heart. My boyfriend is almost the perfect man - except for the fact that he is not Muslim. He has good principles and doesn't drink or anything. Since becoming more religious, I've asked him about converting, and he will not consider it. I know I have no future with him.

Recently, I have cut contact with my mother and have stopped visiting my parents.

I am in my final year of university and am planning on moving to London after I have finished precisely because of my entire situation. London is so big and I feel like it will give me a greater chance of meeting friends, a life partner, and starting a new life where I can finally be happy.

I am having breakdowns at this moment because I feel like I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life. I find it hard to connect with people. I have only two friends I feel like I really connect with, and then there's my boyfriend. At the age of twenty I've only ever connected with three people. The fact that I now have to only consider Muslim guys for partners has narrowed down my chances of finding another connection by so much. On top of that, I would have to find a Muslim guy who is willing to date, as I would want to be in a relationship with someone before marriage.

I also don't feel like I'm the kind of girl a Muslim guy will want to settle down with. I don't wear hijab and I feel like lot of people will automatically assume I'm not marriage material because of that. Also, I feel like many Muslim guys would want the approval of their parents before marrying someone. What Muslim parents would approve of a girl who has pretty much no ties with her family? I don't want to be used by a guy for fun and then get dumped for someone his parents chose.

I feel like I'm never going to have a connection with a Muslim guy, and my religion does not allow me to be with a non-Muslim, and therefore I see my future being filled with unhappiness and loneliness.

Advice or perspective would be appreciated.

You're chasing happiness and looking for it in people lol. seek happiness within yourself first. You cut ties with your family... what makes you think you wont cut ties with guys u date?

Forget all this bf crap for now and concentrate on your Deen. Make up with your parents too.

i never said i dont feel muslim

i didnt want responses from random people actually, but from other muslims

and a therapist is going to know **** all about my situation, which is, again, why ive asked for replies from other muslims.

Damn I forgot that Heaven thing - soz bro

I'm sure that praying for a rotting corpse does a lot of good things for your mental health though