Why do I find gay males more gross compared to lesbians?

Original post by Anonymous

Firstly, I am all for gay rights and a massive supporter of gay marriage, have plenty of gay friends. However, gay males particularly regarding sex I dunno I can't help but feel grossed by it and I'm really not trying to offend anyone. I feel really bad but I can't help but feel this way. Sometimes I feel disgusted by it.

However, I have no issue with lesbian sex. I actually thinks it's romantic, sensual and very sexy. Also it's very safe and more emotional. Is it any wonder lesbian porn is always on top as the most watched for both straight males and straight females.

Btw I'm a straight girl.

Because lesbian porn is all about the female gaze and what women want to see so it is easier for you to put yourself in their shoes... whereas, as a woman, 2 gay men going at it isn't something that you can access.

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Anonymous #2

I personally find it disgusting unchatsitsy and just plain out gross

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Anonymous #2

I have nothing against gay people though

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OP

Original post by Friffinghell

Because lesbian porn is all about the female gaze and what women want to see so it is easier for you to put yourself in their shoes... whereas, as a woman, 2 gay men going at it isn't something that you can access.

Well straight men love lesbian porn?

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OP

Original post by Anonymous

I have nothing against gay people though

Same. I just can't help but find the thought of it disgusting. I do feel terrible though.

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black1blade

Men are inherently way more gross than women. Anal is also gross no matter who does it too.

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username1628823

Original post by Anonymous

Firstly, I am all for gay rights and a massive supporter of gay marriage, have plenty of gay friends. However, gay males particularly regarding sex I dunno I can't help but feel grossed by it and I'm really not trying to offend anyone. I feel really bad but I can't help but feel this way. Sometimes I feel disgusted by it.

However, I have no issue with lesbian sex. I actually thinks it's romantic, sensual and very sexy. Also it's very safe and more emotional. Is it any wonder lesbian porn is always on top as the most watched for both straight males and straight females.

Btw I'm a straight girl.

My theory is that this is because lesbian sex does not use any parts of the body that aren't used in straight sex. Gay male sex, on the other hand, does.

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OP

Original post by Jasaron

My theory is that this is because lesbian sex does not use any parts of the body that aren't used in straight sex. Gay male sex, on the other hand, does.

Hmm I think that could be it.

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Friffinghell

Original post by Anonymous

Well straight men love lesbian porn?

Yes because straight men love women. And there's two women. Win win.

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OP

Original post by Anonymous

You can't call lesbian :sex ,sexy ,sensual and romantic, and be a straight girl

I'm definitely bi-curious. But aren't most girls??

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Ladymusiclover

I think gay guys are more in your face with their sexuality and involves actual penile penetration (whereas lesbians don't use penile penetration buy other erm forms which are more normal/acceptable and more commonly used in heterosexual relations). I kind of agree with you, there's something different in terms of lesbians and gay males (other than gender) that I find off putting.

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OP

Original post by Ladymusiclover

I think gay guys are more in your face with their sexuality and involves actual penile penetration (whereas lesbians don't use penile penetration buy other erm forms which are more normal/acceptable and more commonly used in heterosexual relations). I kind of agree with you, there's something different in terms of lesbians and gay males (other than gender) that I find off putting.

I came across a video of a woman wearing strap on it was kinda weird.

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applesforme

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Original post by Friffinghell

Because lesbian porn is all about the female gaze and what women want to see so it is easier for you to put yourself in their shoes... whereas, as a woman, 2 gay men going at it isn't something that you can access.

Erm...it is very accessible, also coming from a straight female. 2+ cute hot guys...what isn't to like? I don't know exactly where my gaze is at...but I know where my hands is at..

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Ladymusiclover

Original post by Anonymous

I came across a video of a woman wearing strap on it was kinda weird.

Okay, I guess that part is weird (dammit got bad images in my head now) but like sex toys/dildos are seen as more "normal".

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Ladymusiclover

Need to repent after spending too long on this thread. :colondollar:

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Loopy91

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...If you like men, surely you like to see them doing stuff.
Also, I read somewhere that gay men actually practise oral sex more than they do anal sex so that's just a preconception on your part.
Maybe it's because a lot of them are promiscuous (with the likes of the grindr guys) and are a bit brash about their sex life? There are a lot of gay guys who aren't like that and you probably wouldn't be grossed out by.

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Raven F. Aries

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Most of these beginning statements are hilarious to me since most of you are ignorant to use "porn" as your base of discussion whereas it's about the personal connection between individuals not their genitals. Stop and realize it's created for fictional entertainment not reality. You hear that sound? Knowledge just dropped, have a nice day.

(edited 6 years ago)

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Bang Outta Order