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    So at school, these girls who I barley talk to or know started a rumour about me being gay, I know a couple in that friends circle. I don't understand why they even talk about me or how they see me as gay. I heard it's the way I act like wtf there isn't a way to act gay, im the average teenage boy. I heard the dumbest thing about me running my fingers through my hair as being gay, I have my hair slicked back I just do it so it doesn't fall down. I'm not gay but I'm so irritated by it because I don't know them and they are just lying about me. I'm really anxious about what people say about me since I'm so insecure
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    Do you mince? Flap your hands? Skip? Click your fingers? Lisp?

    That's the way they mean act

    Tell the head

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    No lol I'm the average teen boy, I'm too aggressive to be seen as gay.Are they taking the piss or what
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    start a rumour about them being lezzers

    tell them you actually saw them having an tongue-orgy with each other behind the bus stop
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    You could always just flirt with them. If you express an interest them then they certainly won't think of you as gay. As for the rumour, it's just a rumour honestly it's probably just edgy banter. Just out of interest what year are you in? (i would expect year 9 and below after that people realise calling people gay isn't as funny or insulting as it seems)
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    I'm in year 12 which makes this **** even worse and confusing wth, I don't even know these girls they didn't go to my secondary school
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So at school, these girls who I barley talk to or know started a rumour about me being gay, I know a couple in that friends circle. I don't understand why they even talk about me or how they see me as gay. I heard it's the way I act like wtf there isn't a way to act gay, im the average teenage boy. I heard the dumbest thing about me running my fingers through my hair as being gay, I have my hair slicked back I just do it so it doesn't fall down. I'm not gay but I'm so irritated by it because I don't know them and they are just lying about me. I'm really anxious about what people say about me since I'm so insecure
    Rumours are rumours. Don't listen to them or worry about them. Your friends know who you are, just be yourself.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So at school, these girls who I barley talk to or know started a rumour about me being gay, I know a couple in that friends circle. I don't understand why they even talk about me or how they see me as gay. I heard it's the way I act like wtf there isn't a way to act gay, im the average teenage boy. I heard the dumbest thing about me running my fingers through my hair as being gay, I have my hair slicked back I just do it so it doesn't fall down. I'm not gay but I'm so irritated by it because I don't know them and they are just lying about me. I'm really anxious about what people say about me since I'm so insecure
    u seem like ur scared the truth is coming out
    atleast the girls know u exist-every cloud man
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    The way school works, they will move on from this rumour before it has even circulated
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    (Original post by Itsthe)
    No lol I'm the average teen boy, I'm too aggressive to be seen as gay, i play football. Are they taking the piss or what
    Doe it matter they think you're gay? It's not the 90's mate. Becks had an alice band, ran his fingers through his hair.

    I think they want your D bro :sexface:

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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    u seem like ur scared the truth is coming out
    atleast the girls know u exist-every cloud man
    What truth, I'm not gay there's nothing wrong with being gay. I just don't want lies to be created about me behind my back from people I've never engaged in a convo longer than 10 seconds with
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    Remember, there is only one thing worse than being talked about ...
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    (Original post by Amullai)
    You could always just flirt with them. If you express an interest them then they certainly won't think of you as gay. As for the rumour, it's just a rumour honestly it's probably just edgy banter. Just out of interest what year are you in? (i would expect year 9 and below after that people realise calling people gay isn't as funny or insulting as it seems)
    I'm in year 12 which makes this **** even worse and confusing wth, I don't even know these girls they didn't go to my secondary school
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    Remember, there is only one thing worse than being talked about ...
    What's that ?
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    (Original post by SMEGGGY)
    Doe it matter they think you're gay? It's not the 90's mate. Becks had an alice band, ran his fingers through his hair.

    I think they want your D bro :sexface:

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    Maybe lol one of them is fit
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    (Original post by Itsthe)
    I'm in year 12 which makes this **** even worse and confusing wth, I don't even know these girls they didn't go to my secondary school
    Ignore it, if you show that you're bothered or unnerved by it, they'll think there's some truth in it. You know who you are it's not your job to prove yourself to other people, especially people you don't know.

    Besides theres 20 well almost 19 more months until Sixth Form will be over and you go your seperate ways. So focus on A-Levels.
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    they probs find you hot but think youre gay cause of the way you talk

    doesnt make any sense but its what actually happens in my 6th form lool.


    inb4 i know you
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    They're probably butthurt you don't give them attention, I had it happen to me too :lol:
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    You forgot to check the "anonymous" box...
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    (Original post by faloodeh)
    they probs find you hot but think youre gay cause of the way you talk

    doesnt make any sense but its what actually happens in my 6th form lool.


    inb4 i know you
    You know me? Lol how
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