Taking a cheater back? Your thoughts...yes or no? And why 🌹

Never take back a cheat. I almost did it once. They demonstrate the worst in people 9/10. I can excuse some circumstances, but I still think you are small if you cannot just stand up and be honest about not being ready for a monogamous relationship.

In my experience, cheating comes mainly with immaturity or being a knobhead. I have never been interested in sleeping around, which is perfectly fine to do, but too many people who are at that stage in their lives trick themselves and others into thinking they can settle down. It gets selfish.

Cheaters also turn out to br repeat offenders.

He got with this girl on a night out when i wasn't there... So it was two weeks of going over everything and talking things out and he literally did it that weekend x

have you ever taken a cheater back? If so why ? If not why? How do you know someone is genuinely sorry?

🌹Not sleeping with someone! Perhaps taking another girl / man out not in a friends way. Or kissing or texting someone in a way that would be classed as cheating 🌹

What about if the person didn’t sleep around , didn’t have s e x with someone ? Would you change your perception.

I assume you mean if they acted on sexual/emotional impulses, just not all the way through to sex? Not really. Any act of affection (kissing, sexual touching, amorous conversation, sexting, etc) outside of platonic perimeters or pre-discussed boundaries is an act of deceit, and demonstrative of a lack of dedication or maturity for a committed relationship. It also suggests that their partner is not satisfying their emotional needs nor connecting with them in a way that would make them regret decisions involving cheating, which further suggests they should give up the act that the/a relationship is right for them—the cheater.

Pear shape as in? Also, I feel as though me and him are trying to work things out but sometimes I would throw it back in his face that he cheated? What does this mean.


What he did I would say he half cheated he didn’t have sex with no one but he took another girl out to cinema they didn’t do anything though but he got her number at a festival. The timing of it was that our relationship had emotionally ended not physically it was toxic and unhealthy!

have you ever taken a cheater back? If so why ? If not why? How do you know someone is genuinely sorry?

🌹Not sleeping with someone! Perhaps taking another girl / man out not in a friends way. Or kissing or texting someone in a way that would be classed as cheating 🌹

say you been with someone for 3/4 years.. and the other person jus slips up at a party and kisses someone else. that's forgivable imo