Nervous before sex
Does anyone know how to be less nervous before and during sex? I have self confidence issues and get way too stressed about it and I can tell that it bothers my boyfriend.
That's kind of normal, especially in the earlier stages of a relationship.
Few things
Few things
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lower the lighting, enough to see but give you some cover. A side light or candles
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A little alcohol can lower inhibitions until you get more used to things
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Consider something like a little silky nightie/slip/body/teddy - feels sexy, good access to the important bits and some coverage for you
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If he's up for it you can even blindfold your bf for some extra fun and to build your confidence
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Put some music on reasonably loud so you are less consiocus of the sex noises - chosen carefully
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