im 16 and my girlfriend is also 16, i lost my v card today but there were a number of issues and i just wanted to check if its normal or not?
first of all, i couldnt get it in, multiple times. it took us about 5 mins of faffing about to get into a position that i could actually put it in. it was really awkward
secondly, she broke her hymen and apart from the blood, does this have any other effects in sex?
Also, i couldnt get a boner, i dont know why. ive always had a massively high sex drive but when it came to actually having sex i could barely get a boner so i doubt i even reached the g spot.
my penis also felt really numb, and i think the biggest part of this is how it didnt even feel nice. i felt literally nothing when i was going in and i even had to ask her if it was in? it felt better when she was ******* me off, i know some condoms make it numb but i was using an "extra safe" one by durex with the intention that it would help me last longer.
thanks.