Educating myself on transgender issues - Plz help

Hi, I'm genderflux (or genderfluid, I don't mind tbh) and also living in a conservative area so feel free to ask me anything, I like talking about it online. But most just remember:
1. Use the pronouns they ask you to use
2. Use the name they ask you to use (and don't try to guess the old one)
3. It is who we are, not a choice we make

Hi! Thanks so much for replying - Ive heard of genderfluidity but I have never heard of genderflux, do you think you could explain what it means to be either, is it identifying with neither male or female or as something seperate? Sorry if i sound super dumb i just have NO clue what im talking about. Are your pronouns they?

Oh don't worry about not knowing, we all start off not knowing and you are being brilliant for trying to learn more! Genderflux is similar to being Genderfluid except instead of changing between male, female, agender, bigender, etc. the intensity of my gender changes. So I may be fully female, or partially female, or completely agender but I am never male. They are very similar and therefore I don't mind being called genderfluid (other people might idk). \

As for pronouns, I only use she/her on fully female days, which are few and far between, and instead mostly use they/them. I know it's confusing but if you meet someone who is genderflux or genderfluid and use the wrong pronoun, just apologise, correct yourself, and move on. Also sometimes they will have a bracelet or badge which says their pronouns on it. And if in doubt, use they because it can be used to refer to any gender.
I hope this helps! (And makes some sense)

Biggest issues are general bigotry (eg. people just hating us for just trying to get on in life. I've been shouted at in the street and stuff before), really long waiting times for any kind of medical intervention (I've been on it for 1 1/2 years and still haven't heard anything), and very high suicide rates (40% attempt, 60% consider).
If you want to be supportive that's great. For me (and this may differ depending on the person) I really prefer it when people treat it as more a non-issue. I do tell people I will likely be spending a lot of time with (eg. school I volunteer at, staff know, students don't). My advice if anyone comes out would be to say something like 'wow, thank you for telling me, I understand that must have been really hard for you. Is there a way I can best support you?' and just be there to listen sometimes because being trans is ****. It's really terrible and I think that's something a lot of people don't realise.
I'd just like to say though that the fact you're going out of your way to get better educated trying to better understand how to support trans people-so many people won't even do that.

You explained this so well thank you so much, I feel I've learnt a whole new thing I didn't even know existed. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain it to me - can i also ask, will all people who identify the same way you do also have the same feelings and pronouns, or can it vary while under the same name?

Hey I'm a cis gal and I dont know any trans people and live in a very conservative rural area so I honestly dont know anything about transgender issues. I dont want to have to make trans people online explain everything to me and i dont really use social media that much. Does anyone have resources which I can use to educate myself on this topic?

hi... would using they/them pronouns for binary trans people offend them (before and after finding out their pronouns)? currently i think its safer than using their dead pronouns (if that's what they're called) by accident but still i just want to make sure i don't hurt anyone... thanks......

Depends on the person. Certainly before learning their pronouns it's fine, even after for many it wouldn't be an issue for casual use (people can of course use multiple sets of pronouns). Where you might well run into an issue is knowing their pronouns, knowing that those pronouns aren't they/them and making an effort to only use they/them, rather than the persons pronouns - some won't care, some might consider it in effect "soft misgendering", in that you're not actively misgendering them by using the set they've transitioned from, but deliberately refusing to use their pronouns and only use gender neutral ones could be seen as a refusal to acknowledge their gender.

Safest practice is just to use the set they prefer once you know, but generally even if you slip up occasionally people will tend to understand if they see there isn't intent to get it wrong.