muslim girls and their desires

so im just curious at how other muslim girls control their sexual desires bcs i acc struggle so much and idk if other girls too. I have to masterbate most days which isnt ideal but my thoughts just consume me and theres not much else i can do

plz tell me im not alone in this lol my friends and ppl around me seem super innocent and i assume sex doesnt even cross their minds

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Anonymous #2

Most guys assume they are the most innocent people in the world so this is news to me lol

Ew

OP

Original post by Anonymous

Most guys assume they are the most innocent people in the world so this is news to me lol

lmaoo im sure some of them definitely are but i am not one of them :s-smilie:

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Ew

grow up

how old are you

OP

Original post by Moonlight rain

how old are you

20

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Anonymous #2

At the end of the day it’s natural and healthy as long as you can control yourself 👍🏻

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username5326522

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Original post by Anonymous

20

go find a man then

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Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

so im just curious at how other muslim girls control their sexual desires bcs i acc struggle so much and idk if other girls too. I have to masterbate most days which isnt ideal but my thoughts just consume me and theres not much else i can do

plz tell me im not alone in this lol my friends and ppl around me seem super innocent and i assume sex doesnt even cross their minds

Im 19 and go through the same thing but I know it is a sin to so i’m just as conflicted.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

grow up

Why are people now starting to think fingering yourself is acceptable

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Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Anonymous

Im 19 and go through the same thing but I know it is a sin to so i’m just as conflicted.

yeah and I dont see myself as being ready for marriage so its a struggle

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Y13throwaway

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Original post by Moonlight rain

go find a man then

^ basically this. idk i wouldve went and got a man at 18 19 if i was a woman.

OP i think most muslim guys and girls do it. while its a filthy sin, you're doing the lesser of 2 evils(zina). get married and enjoy sex(and you get plenty of rewards for doing it)

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Why are people now starting to think fingering yourself is acceptable

that’s what people have to resist to since your religion bans sex outside marriage

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Y13throwaway

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Original post by Anonymous

that’s what people have to resist to since your religion bans sex outside marriage

fasting, cold showers, prayering+reading quran can take your mind off it

ultimately repentance. you can commit a mountain of sins, if you;re sincere allah the most merciful will forgive you.

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tazarooni89

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Original post by Anonymous

plz tell me im not alone in this lol my friends and ppl around me seem super innocent and i assume sex doesnt even cross their minds

It crosses everyone’s minds, you just can’t tell because it’s not something we generally talk about publicly. I don’t think there’s anything unusual about this.

I have to masterbate most days which isnt ideal but my thoughts just consume me and theres not much else i can do

Why is that a problem? I’m not aware that there’s anything in the Qur’an that says you can’t do that?

(edited 3 years ago)

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

that’s what people have to resist to since your religion bans sex outside marriage

....Get married then. It doesn't have to be a huge event, marriage is just a contract that ensures you can't just walk out one day and leave someone behind in shambles. People should learn to control their desires, and not live like animals.